What steps can I do to make a girl my own?????????
2006-08-31 15:26:37 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Be yourself. Pay special attention to her, but don't smother her. Talk to her about things that interest you and things that interest her. Buy her a rose once in a while. Be yourself, don't pretend to be someone you are not.
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2006-08-31 18:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you must go up and start talking to the girl. Say hi, introduce yourself, try to get to know her a little bit, etc. Of course, this may not work the first time you try it, but keep trying and talk to many different girls. You can't force a connection or chemistry so just wait until you feel like there is something there. Then be nice and polite and ask her if she would like to go out sometime. Chances are, she will say yes. Then ask her for her phone number and call her and make a date. Then, on the date, treat her very nicely and don't try to force her to fall for you too fast or else it won't happen. Just let things take place on their own time and it will happen for you. I don't know if this works for every girl, but I think that most girls want to be treated nicely and with respect so as long as you do that, you shouldn't have any problem finding a nice girl who will like you.
2006-08-31 23:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by jjdanca18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, just be yourself. Don't try to be someone that you're not just to impress. This seldom works and girls see right through that. Second of all, no-one owns anyone, so you can't make someone your own. People are not possessions. Like yourself first and girls will start to like you. Concentrate more on being friendly, helpful and kind at all times. Before you know it, girls will want to hang out with you because you're a great guy !!
2006-08-31 22:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her questions about her life, family, dreams, and actually listen to what she says, don't just nod. A lot of guys ask good question but never wait or listen to the answer. Be different. You can find out a lot about her just by talking. A lot of guys try to get physical on the second date. That's wrong.
Let her tell you when she's ready for the next step.
If you force her into anything she'll hate you and dump you before you know it. Then you're off to your next girl.
It might be fine until you meet a girl that you fall in love with!
2006-08-31 22:54:28 · answer #4 · answered by adel e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no set steps that work every time. Every girl is different. Get to know a girl you are interested in as friends and you'll probably find a way to her heart.
Here's a few things that might be most general for what women want. Be confident, listen, and care. Women hate wimps and they're tired of dumb, arrogant men who just want sex and don't care about them. Just prove you're different.
Trial and error. Just keep trying things and see what works. Good luck
2006-08-31 22:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you use the word,"court," which is so nice and gentlmanly. Then you say you want tot make a girl your own. I know what you are saying, but some girls might not appreciate that way of putting it. Good luck,amigo. Always be a gentleman.....that is the secret.
2006-08-31 22:42:36 · answer #6 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Be persistant. Especially if it seems like she's into you but she gets hit on all the time. If you step out of the box and just do whatever your heart tells you to then you should grab hold of her attention. Tell her how you feel if your feeling a certain way about her. Just last night a guy professed his love for me yet again. I'm not really broken down yet but its starting to wear me down, but in a good way. He's been persistant as hell. And he lets me knw that its not about sex(cuz he ain't gettn none). I admire that about him....he's willing to put his heart on his sleeves...
2006-09-01 11:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by Z. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go down to the "adult" toy shop and buy one. take her home and inflate her. then shes all yours.
but seriously,
The "making a girl your own" is sort of a paradox. it is only done by giving yourself entirely to the girl, but managing to retain your manliness. do not attempt to enter a relationship if you intend to take something. only enter a relationship if you intend to give everything. only if you have intentions of paying attention only to the girl you want to make your own will you succeed. unfortunately, girls are fickle and have short attention spans. you could give yourself away and have it come to nothing. think carefully before you pick a girl that is worth that trouble.
2006-09-01 00:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by Stand-up Philosopher 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
... so many directions of where not to go that all stem from coming to Yahoo! Answers. Hmm ....
Talking to them is a good start. I don't know how many people I know who couldn't get the girl they want (or any girl for some of them) that, when I asked them if they ever talked to her (or any girl), they said no.
2006-08-31 22:43:52 · answer #9 · answered by Icon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very easy to do simply make eye contact with the girl then wave a hundred dollar bill in the air. The girl is now yours.
2006-08-31 22:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋