I go to a mostly white school, and i am white,black and hispanic..im a little chunky but i get told i have a very pretty face though..my problem is no guys like me well, they have liked me for my personality.. but i think they are embarrassed to go out with me because im not a skinny white chick.... is something wrong with me that i just dont see...besides not being stick thin?...is it my race or my weight or what?...im so frustrated.
2006-08-31 15:07:00 · 13 answers · asked by mkelley 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I'm sure you are just fine. Guys (expically those in high school) are so worried about fitting in, and being cool that they just don't tend to see a good thing when it's right in front of them. Dont let it get you so worked up. After all you are still in high school, and once you leave things will get better. Dont try to be something that you arent. Be happy with who you are. Being a skinny white chick even has it's downfalls. Everyone is special in their own way. Just remember that.
2006-08-31 15:23:31 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no mistakes in nature, You are the way you are for a reason. When that special someone comes along, It won't matter if you are a skinny white chick or have a horn in your head. He will like you for you. When you get old, looks fade, but love is forever. Don't feel you have to change what God gave you for anyone.
2006-08-31 15:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by Myrtle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sue B, speak for yourself and not other whites.
They are white and probably feel more comfortable with their own for now, just LIKE YOU would want to be with your kind if you were at a mostly black and hispanic school.
SO instead of whining about it, YOU make the connection with them., boys are stupid at that age, I bet you they are over there talking about how hot you are and daring each other. SO you make the first initial contact
2006-08-31 15:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by wilowdreams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it. When you're in school many people are just shallow. When you get into college I'll bet the guys will be all over you. I've seen stick thin and muscular guys going out with girls of your proportions. Keep your chin up and stick to your studies so that you can get to one of these colleges some day.
2006-08-31 15:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by big_dog832001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hourglass is even as the bust and hips are a similar length and the waist is heavily smaller than the hips. sounds like you'd be extra pear formed. Examples: Hourglass: 36-26-36 Pear: 34-26-37
2016-12-06 01:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that problem in hs too. It wasn't until I got out of hs that I realized what I was working with and more guys wanted to talk to me. Course, after a while I realized I didn't want to be with guys anyway, now I have to start the process all over again. And the difference is, girls are harder to please!
2006-08-31 15:21:17 · answer #6 · answered by Agent Double EL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hang in there. Most skinny white girls are kinda fake, ya know? Be proud of who you are.
One thing my boyfriend always tells me - he is attracted to people who are confident. He chooses "confidence" over beauty, personality, or anything else. So be confident in your race and weight. Also - be "happy". People are naturally drawn to happy people.
2006-08-31 15:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by Sue B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hang in there.......it maybe because of your race, or weight or whatever.......but don't let it get you down. Most of the people in your high school are probably closed minded and immature. Just be yourself! when people see confidence in others.......they are attracted to that
2006-08-31 15:18:35 · answer #8 · answered by mommyLynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure it is because you are still in school... There is a serious lack of maturity at that age... It could be anything...
2006-08-31 15:23:55 · answer #9 · answered by dudeabides 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things are just like that , u have to live with it..
no use getting worked up about this
2006-08-31 15:22:17 · answer #10 · answered by alvin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋