I am only 40 years old, and I look fairly good I am not hard on the eyes or anything but the problem is that 1. I dont drink and 2. I am not into premiscous sex. Men don't ask me out at all and really in my whole lifetime I only been on a real date 2 times when I was in my late teens. I think it is kind of sinister that at my age I look back and see that I really never had a man treat me with dignity and respect enough to ask me out on a date without asking for sex or something in return...Has anyone else had this experience or am I "the only one"!
2006-08-31 14:50:06 · 7 answers · asked by odaat_1218 1 in Dining Out ➔ United States ➔ Other - US Dining Out
thats a problem. i want to dine out. do you want to dine out with me?
2006-08-31 22:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying that you HAVE been on other dates but the guy always asks for sex or something in return at the end of the date.....or you've only been on one date??
You must not be looking in the right places for men. There are some dogs out there, but there definitely are some gentlemen still out there. Just because you don't drink or sleep around doesn't mean that you can't date guys.
Do you go to church or are you a member of any social clubs? These would be great places to meet good guys.
2006-08-31 15:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My goodness. You don't have to have dinner dates with a man.
Don't you have any women friends? Last week 5 of my friends
( all women) went out to eat & celebrate 2 birthdays. We had a
great time. If a man hasn't treated you with respect, it could be
that you are expecting too much? I have gone out with men & boys since I was 14 years old and I have always been treated with respect. If the Man doesn't really know you he may think of
you as a one night stand, but if you go out with men that know you and know how you live your life then they should show you respect.
2006-08-31 15:16:49 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From your story, I don't think theres something wrong with you. Its just that men are really jerks especially those who just want to get you drunk or go to bed. I salute you for choosing to wait for the perfect gentleman to come into your life. If I were a man, I'd take you out on a date 3 times a week. You don't have to change anything about yourself.
2006-08-31 16:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by Meeya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused... You want a date? or you want just dinners?
How about lunch date???
I would like to ask
What do you expect for a "real date" with a real man (gentleman)?
Wish you Good luck in searching your Mr. Right.
2006-09-02 00:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by Aileen HK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to join the generation and start asking out men who you find of interest. Some men prefer to be asked rather than to risk rejection... kind of what you've been doing, isn't it?
2006-08-31 15:10:11 · answer #6 · answered by Mike S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend on having dinner with your girl friends...........have a girl's night out and have fun..
maybe joining a online dating service. get to know someone first, then go from there..
2006-08-31 15:42:30 · answer #7 · answered by DIANE W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋