I have been with a girl now for a year. We've had ups and downs. At this point we are seperated. I know she loves me, She is very stuborn and will not ask me to go back with her. I have to be the one to do the asking. We seperate because she says she needs space. I know there's no other because I live across the street and she doesn't go anywhere. She has a hard time with trusting. She wants a long term relationship, but can only go so far with out getting overwelhmed. She knows I love her more then anything. How do I handle this situation? We are very compatible.
2006-08-31 14:42:33 · 11 answers · asked by halfwound 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Try to spend time with her without acting like a couple...show her that you love her more than anything else in the world but not completely overwhelmed by physical stuff...and by showing her that you'll be showing her that you're ready to be with her.
2006-08-31 15:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by onehotlamma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her the space that shes asking for. Do not push her into anything. She will come around when shes ready. I mean you only live across the street from eachother,,,she probably still feels like her space is being crowded. Let her do her own thing until she realizes how much she loves you. She will be back.
2006-08-31 14:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all u can really do is be there for her try not to push so hard on the relationship angle. so just give her ,the space she needs and relax go w/the flow of things and see where it takes u, otherwise u might miss out on a special girl good luck.
2006-08-31 17:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by rachel m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and give her the space she needs! also try to be her best friend and work on being a couple it might be the best thing for your relationship! good luck!
2006-08-31 15:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by allan l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you guys are that compatable, given her stubbornness and aversion to long term commitment. Talk to her about this, not Yahoo Answers. It sounds like she has you whipped and she knows it.
2006-08-31 14:56:22 · answer #5 · answered by ish2189 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heyy you shud tell her how you feel and livin across the street isnt really givin her space lmaoo but really tell her everything u feel and she'll take u back if she really does love you othawise move on and leave her alone
2006-08-31 14:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by xsoolovelyx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you said shes stubborn,so if you need to make the first move then do it. pride will only make things worse.
2006-08-31 14:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by gorgeouschic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put ur foot down buddy make her ask u
2006-08-31 14:55:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, You should ask god to help you out with this. cuz he will help you . be brave. and good luck on it
2006-08-31 15:05:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your time, when it comes to being overwhelmed, if you love her, work it out.
2006-08-31 14:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by Honey83 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋