plez help me i really need help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!fast?

Question

first of all, i have a friend who is 25 only 2 yrs. younger than me but because she had a fight with her parent i let her crash at my place. ever since she has been living at my place i have had many things missing. i dont lose thing that often. what do i do? :(

Answer 1

Depends on how long you have known this person. If you have known them for years then dont just throw them out. Ask them if they are having problems, what's going on. Maybe they will tell you. Depending on their answer whether you cut them a break or not. You dont get that many real friends in your life. Friends can make a mistakes. On the other hand if you havent known them very long maybe they do this everywhere they live. Either way you need to ask them questions before you know what you need to do. Hope this helps.

Answer 2

I had a similar situation where a friend of mine whom I'd known for 15+ yrs came to live with me and the same thing started happening. I finally went thru her things...found my belongings and confronted her as soon as she came back to my house. When she lied to me about how my items ended up in her room, then got mad at me for searching her belongings -I told her not to worry...it wouldn't happen again...as I had packed her belongings, bought her a bus ticket and would drive her to the bus station in a few minutes. The drive to the bus station- she not once tried to apologize or even admit that she had done anything wrong...so I dropped her off 6 hours before her bus was to leave...Gave her $30.00 for travel money told her never to cross my sight-line again and sent her back to where she came from. She has never said she was sorry and I figure I didn't lose anything worth having that day.

Answer 3

I have had a probalem like that before. While we often feel sorry for our friends and care enough for them to help them out, sometimes they repay that kindness with dishonesty. In my situation at the time, when I had enough to where it became a problem, I had to ask myself 2 questions. What do I want and what is best for me. Obviously either this person or their friends are taking your things. She obviously didn't care enough to not do or allow this to happen, nor respect you. It may be tough, but the obvious choice that is best for you is give her the heave-ho. She is 25 anyway. About time she grows up and support herself. Hope this helps. It did wonders for me.

Answer 4

She might be stealing things from you... You should probably help her and her parents get back together. You could talk to her parents about why the fight happened, and maybe convince them to let her live with them again.

Answer 5

Confront her. If she gets a attitude than you know she took it. If she is doing drugs or drinks a lot then she is most likley stealing from you. If that is the case tell her to not let the door hit her where the Lord split her!

Answer 6

She is taking advantage of you and if she was a real friend she would not steal your stuff. Tell her she ain't got to go home, but she's got to get the fluck up outta your house!!

Answer 7

confrontation time me thinks! talk to her, and tell her that you are not accusing her, but that because you are friends you are giving her the benefit of the doubt and asking her. she admits to it you just tell her that she needs to find another place to stay cause replacing your stuff is expensive and you cannot keep affording it!

Answer 8

Uh Oh She's got to go. Call her momma and send her back home.

Answer 9

First give your friend the benefit or doubt.If it's truly your friend then you should be-able to go to this friend and question them.

Answer 10

Well, don't assume that it's her. You might have lost it even though you say you did'nt. If that does'nt satisfy you throw her out!