why are guys such jerks to me in front of their friends but when were all alone he gets all sweet and nice??? that's just mean... when will i find the rite guy? i was hurt and i really need comforting...
im 13 though just to let u kno... i kno i shouldn't worry but i really need some1 2 talk 2
2006-08-31 14:26:10 · 5 answers · asked by xxazn eleqancexx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
that's how boys are, when boys are with their friends they think they have to be macho, and get embarrassed when it comes to girls, because they don't know what their friends think about that girl. next time he is a jerk to you in front of his friends, just say that's funny you didn't think that last night when........... hope this helps, but remember you are so young, and so are the boys, it is all a learning thing.
2006-08-31 14:37:41 · answer #1 · answered by red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probalby because he is 13 as well and thinks he has to act all macho and stuff. Don't let anyone treat you that way.
When he is a jerk tell him You are being a jerk and I never want to speak to you again. 13 year old boys are all about discovering the opposite sex, and you being female, are naturally more mature, its been proven, your friend will remain a jerk as long as you let him treat you this way, and this goes for anyone in your life.
Have respect for yourself first and don't let anyone mistreat you. If he tries to call to apologize tell him apologize this and hang up on him. You don't need people starting to abuse you before your even ready to go out with boys steady. Be smart and let them know that you are not one of those googoo eyed girls that will put up with any of that.
You can talk to your mom she will also tell you to stay away from boys like that. You look for someone who respects you, won't make demands of you like (if you love me you will prove it by having sex with me) that only shows how little he loves you, it doesn't matter how good it feels to hear him say he loves you because if anyone pressures you when you are not ready they do NOT love you. You are to young for that anyway just look for friendship for now the rest will come soon enough.
I am a mother of 3 boys please take my advise.
2006-08-31 21:49:04 · answer #2 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the movie Grease. There is a scene which Danny is with his friends and makes fun of Sandy.
Teen boys have egos and they are immature.
2006-08-31 21:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by SAHM/Part Time Tutor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah guys are jerks espcially through 8th and 9th grade its gay soo yeah i think its just alot better not to have a bf...then you are free to do what ever you want with whoever and also you dont have to be worried about any commitments i promise its the way to go..all guys are like the same
2006-08-31 21:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by blonde_ambition 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need a guy ,u just need a friend.guys at the age of 13 haven't matured yet. so don't worry about those guys they still have allot of growing up to do.girls mature faster then guys.
2006-08-31 21:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by lovinonly#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋