He said he loves me very much and he misses me a lot but also told me that he loves another person. How can this be possible? We talk everyday but I guess that's not enough...
Should I get rid of him? We're in a long distance relationship and we've been on and off for sometime. We don't actually see each other anymore. We talked on the phone and he sends me e-mails everyday and sends me text messages when I'm @ work.
We talked abt. it too but he insisted that we should stay together.
We've known each other for 11 years...Yep and no ring yet :(
2006-08-31 14:20:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Being in love means having very strong feeling for someone, having feelings of deep passion for them.
Although every person is different, some people can have, in general, "the same personality".
I suggest you talk a bit more about it, and listen to your heart and gut. If it is true love, it will all fall into place.
2006-08-31 14:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's trying to let you down gently - girl dump him. Don't return his calls, delete his number, and find your girlfriends and go party! Ask that cute guy at work if he wants to get a drink sometime. No point in wasting time on a guy who says that he is in love with another person. I think you have found your answer right there. You know what you have to do - the hardest part is letting go. I wish you the best of luck - and I hope that you make the right decision and kick this guy to the curb ;) You're too fabulous to put up with this crap!
I'm sorry but for those that say that to keep and open mind and to love more than one person - whatever. If you pulled this stuff on him, guys will dump the girl NO MATTER WHAT. Girls are always the 'nice ones' who put up with it.
PS Guaranteed that if you say that you like someone else, he'll have a fit......but don't use that to get back with him, you don't know what he is doing out there......
2006-08-31 21:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by flygrrl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hunny it's been 11 years and yet no rings it time to get rid of him i know it's been a long time and it's going to be hard at first but there's a soul mate for everyone and your never going to find him with this guy...long distance relastionships never work and it sounds like he already met sum1 else(see long distance never works) im so srry but you do what you think its right it's your decision if you really do love him you may want to keep him but if you feel like it's going no where then it's time to dump him
take a couple days and think about see how you feel dig deep down and listen to your
heart...good luck and i really do hope you make the right decision for you
besides if you ever told him your in love with sum1 else he might dump you that's just how guys are they really are confusing
hey im only 14 years old but i really do understand alot about love...i wish you the best of luck
2006-08-31 22:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by ♥◦◊◦Brown eyed babe◦◊◦♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right you say 11 years and still no ring well my mum and da were togeva 18 years before he proposed i mena love is s splendid thing if you really love him and he loves you time my love is just a number and about the other girl he may love her but does he love her the way he loves you try not ot make any irrational decissions the time will come honey trust me i really hope everything works out for you xxxxx
2006-08-31 23:00:41 · answer #4 · answered by liam_jones_10_10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Despite what the large majority of narrowminded people believe, you can love more than one person. It's not always a good thing, infact it causes more problems than anything else. But you cannot assume that just because he loves someone else, that he doesn't still love you.
Ask him to make a commitment. I doubt you're willing to share him, most people in this instance wouldn't be. So ask him to choose which is more important to him, you or her. If he doesn't choose you, then you're probably better off.
2006-08-31 21:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by silverwingedseraph 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do know one thing it is possible to Love more than one person at a time, but if you aren't seeing much of each other then He must Love the other person more than you. I wouldn't wait around I would ditch him Good Luck and I am not trying to sound harsh. I have been there and it is rough.
2006-08-31 21:28:19 · answer #6 · answered by Mickey S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you should move on, but keep him as a good friend. Who knows... maybe something will work out later on when he's more committed to the relationship. As always, it's good to be open and as communicative as possible, but don't put your own needs aside for his.
2006-08-31 21:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by Patricia S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if i were u i'll try to get rid of him
cuz if he really treasure this relationship...he would never
luv another one at the same time
maybe it's been 11 yrs n he kinda get tired n bored...but think
about it...wat if u luv another man at the same time?
how does he feel ???? just make him decide ...if he choose
another woman u don't hav to be with him anymore
2006-08-31 21:29:02 · answer #8 · answered by I HATE CHEATERS 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get rid of him. After 11 years, you either love a person, or you don't. You don't stay confused that long....
2006-08-31 21:25:51 · answer #9 · answered by Lindsay 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WELL HONEY HOW DO YOU REALLY FEEL HE SAYS HE LOVES YOU BUT DOESN'T HE LIKE LOVE SOMEONE ELSE. OKAY YOU SAY YOU GUYS ARE LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP DON'T YOU THINK HE'S GETTING SOME FROM ANOTHER GIRL YOU'RE TRIPPIN YOU NEED 2 LET HIM GO AND KEEP HIM AS YOUR FRIEND BECAUSE THERE'S MORE OUT THERE TO LOVE!!!!!
2006-08-31 21:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by Lavender da Great!!! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋