anyone been seperated from brothers and sisters and put in foster care? would you rather have gone through that eperience or remained in a bad household with your real family?--for example ...parents that neglect you and dont bathe you or send u to school. thoughts?
2006-08-31 14:14:50 · 5 answers · asked by AUDREY H 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sorry, no i'm not. however i can't help but notice my close friend's family life. Children being neglected and I just don't know if it is my place to call CPS and risk them getting taken away or if that is better for them. thats all. Didn't want to offend anyone, just don't really understand the process and affect on life.
2006-08-31 14:29:55 · update #1
I am in foster care and a little info. its not always parents faults though about 80% of the time it is.
I am 17 and I know that part of it was my parents but the other part was me.
and yes I am seperated from a lot of ppl are u in foster care or not cuz if not then i kind of find this offincive b/c its not an easy subject when u are. so speak and ask what u know [plz]
not being rude just honest
Jalea
2006-08-31 14:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by LuckyCharm17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aastral, What might you like in case you have been a toddler? i believe this is organic for many infants to desire to advance up with the mother and dad they have been born to. each and every thing could be finished to make that ensue if accessible. If a toddler can't stay along with his or her mum and dad then somebody has to safeguard the toddler. with a view to my way of thinking adoption is making the main suitable of a crummy difficulty. some human beings purely see the fringe of adoption that includes satisfied adoptive mum and dad and their babies. A greater finished photograph might could desire to contain the 1st mum and dad who've lost their toddler, the area of the adoptee that feels that loss, and adoptive mum and dad who're dealing (or could be dealing with extremely than hiding from) the issues of their accompanied toddler's life. some human beings will say that adoptive mum and dad get each and all of the reward of adoption and that they don't see previous that. I agree that i wanted babies and now I even have them so as this is a income. nevertheless my babies mandatory a house and now they have one so as this is a income. it is not purely reward for any human beings. I even have an extremely complicated life as do my babies. i don't get to have satisfied carefree babies with loving hearts made purely for me. I even have indignant, injury babies who're careful of trusting every physique. it is different from as quickly as you deliver a toddler into your place the adoption is done. starting to be a kinfolk is a few thing i think of we will constantly be working at. The loss of their lives is a few thing which will constantly impression them. information my toddler's concepts and thoughts would not come evidently. we could desire to artwork on verbal substitute constantly. consistent with danger I could point out that I accompanied older babies. i don't be responsive to if this is distinctive in case you undertake babies.
2016-10-01 03:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know my sisters kids was in foster care and the care giver hurt her kids i mean she pulled one of her kids ears so hard it almost needed stitches i almost beat that woman down
2006-08-31 14:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but I wouldn't mind fostering if my own kids are grown enough to not be influenced negatively
2006-08-31 14:20:40 · answer #4 · answered by greenfrogs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-08-31 14:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by lisa_chi2005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋