i wish it really could happen, ya know? im really, really depressed and i need to talk to him. my first question would be, what one thing my lord or one word my lord that would stop my husband from drinking? he is already dying from it my lord, and that doesnt stop him. will he still go to heaven? he wants to quit, he just cant. he has tried centers and aa meetings, hes been in the hospital countless times and even had surgeries. i guess there isnt really any help out there,i really wanted to write to God, but i know thats not possible. i guess writting just makes me feel a little better and im sorry i had to bother you people.
2006-08-31 14:13:17 · 13 answers · asked by cathi 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Gosh Honey...I am sorry you are hurting so much.
You don't need an email for God. If you need to write, just like you did your question, do it on the computer, just type it out. God knows your needs even before you do, hon, all we need to do is ask. He can make the most worst situation tolerable, and guide you into making good decisions to do what you need to do to make things work.
He heard you when you asked us this question.
Hang on. I know things are tough. Don't get sucked into all the bad things going on around you. As hard as it is, try and think of what you can be thankful for, and maybe it will help you realize how much God does love you.
The situation with your husband, pray to Him. If you consider praying an email, then just write Him an email and then keep it as a draft, you will have it with you all the time.
I don't know all the answers. The truth is, none of us do. There is help for your husband. Pray that God will direct you to the way you need to go. There are a lot of doctors who are not successful. Your husband is sick, not a failure. Don't stop checking out the doctors till they give you something that helps him.
Also, you asked if your husband would go to Heaven if he died?
Does He believe Jesus is His Savior, and died for him to go to Heaven. That He still would have died if your husband was the only man on earth to save? Our fate was chosen by Adam and Eve, we were supposed to be born without sin, but because we are born into sin, we needed a Savior, and that is why Jesus died for us. There are a few things you can say to Him, and he can be saved, and you two can know you have the assurance of him going to Heaven.
Tell him, and yourself if you need to, to ask forgiveness for your sins.
Tell God that you believe in Him and that you ask Him into your heart and believe Him as your Savior.
Be mindful of Him every single day. Give Him your life, and He will help you.
He cannot help you without you surrendering your whole being to Him. I finally realized that, my dear, when things just were not working for me. I finally gave it all to God, and told Him I relied only on Him. And, when I want that control back, He sets roadblocks in my path to gently remind me to give Him back the control.
There is hope. You just need to believe and hang on...
You can IM me if you need to. Take care!
2006-08-31 14:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by rach_cast 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You can always talk to God one on one. He hears your prayers and he knows your needs before you do. He is all knowing, all powerful. My church family is really important to me and my family. Plus we have such an incredible Pastor that helps us too. Just keep praying and seek godly counsel. Turn your heart to the Lord. You will be amazed at how he can help you and your husband, and how he can totally change your life!!!
2006-08-31 14:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by Trina S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just pray, that is the best email ever. You should go to alanon or to some counseling . It does help to write down how you feel . Just get pencil and paper and write everything you feel down, then you can throw it away. I have done that many times. Please find a group to get into so you have someone to talk with.
2006-08-31 18:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by jingles_200 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I'm an alcoholic. I was in the same place as you husband. And my wife is where you are now. I am sober now and my wife started a Scottsdale chapter of alanon. We're both very familiar with your situation as we lived it ourselves. There is hope. My advice is that your husband needs to go to a rehab center for a 30 intake program. There he can sober up, have support of others going through it too, be monitored health wise, learn about our disease and coping techniques. That's the only way once you're beyond self correction which he is. You also need to take care of yourself so is recommend going to alanon meetings regularly to learn how you can take care of yourself and learn about alcoholism and living with it. As far as redemption is concerned, remember that it's what's in your heart and Jesus forgave everyone even the ones who put Him to death. "Forgive them Father for they know not what they do". He will go to heaven but remember that drinking oneself to death isn't the way.
2015-06-22 18:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by First 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sinner_saved_by_his_grace777 i would be a sinner until I die Don, nevertheless Christ calls us clergymen and saints in Christ Jesus, whilst it contains being something i like to declare why i'm what i'm and it fairly is through fact of his present of grace. Edit: I in simple terms found out that the question became , IF GOD sent you e mail, ha. ok, then i could say it to be. Your_bought1_who_is_waiting_for_you If he's sending me the e.mail i could might desire to make it particular for him.
2016-11-23 16:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's unfortunate when alcoholics are beyond help. You should go to the meetings for family members. They will help you there. You need to be with people like you who feel like you do. It will help you tremendously. I think God would want you to do that. He hears your prayers don't you worry. He's at FROMYOURLIPSTOHISEARS.COM :~)
Go make some friends. You'll feel better.
2006-08-31 14:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with writing your prayers. God hears ya, he knows your heart. Just keep writing or praying to God. Nothing wrong with asking others to pray for you or your hubby also.
God Bless. Ill pray for you and yours.
2006-08-31 14:19:28 · answer #7 · answered by yournotalone 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go direct. get on your knees or lay before him and pray and talk to GOD. GOD is always there. he is jus a word away. believe me i no
2006-08-31 14:48:36 · answer #8 · answered by caramel_sexy20 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
http://www.god.com/
Write a diary, maybe even an online blog, you may discover answers from within yourself and at the same time, help many others.
2006-08-31 14:17:11 · answer #9 · answered by ideaquest 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write to Bush, he always acts as if he did!
2006-08-31 14:20:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋