her sister is in the hospital atm having a miscarriage possibly and her and her sister arent close well they fight alot and shes really down idk what to do
2006-08-31 14:09:46 · 22 answers · asked by sw!ss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell your gf to let go of the past w/e issues they had before dont matter now alls she can do is try and comfort her sister at this time make sure ur gf nos she can talk to u and u love her hug her lots bring food and sweet stuff be sweet and understanding help her out with house stuff ect. offer her ur shoulder just be there for her
2006-09-03 16:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude whatever you do don't say nothin. Women hate it when we talk so just have the decency to stfu. Buy her some dumb girl stuff (flowers, but no candy when people are sick / dying), sit there, listen to her, don't try to play the wise man, get her a burger once in a while, etc.
repeat - do NOT get stoic
if you dump her during this time, you won't get a date in a 10 mile radius
2006-08-31 21:16:15 · answer #2 · answered by Lobster Dinosaur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be nice to her, let her know that you're there for her if she wants to talk and that you'll help in anyway with what's going on with her sister. Sometimes in situations like this girls don't want to talk to a guy about pregnancy and stuff so if she brushes you off or acts frustrated she just may want to be alone with her sister, don't take it personally.
2006-08-31 21:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by CR2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her no that ull do anything that she needs in a time that mite be hard for her and her family. u can also tell her that maybe this isnt the time to fight w/ her sister, but u can help her solve any conflict that she mite need help w/. if ur at this stage, let her constantly no that u love her.
2006-08-31 21:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know you're there for her. Go over to her house (if you aren't already there) and stay there until she either falls asleep or you're kicked out. Keep your arm around her, make her feel appreciated, and let her know that everything will turn out alright with or without the baby being born. Just general things like that.
2006-08-31 21:14:53 · answer #5 · answered by winds_of_justice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When anyone is upset, some things that immediately lift their spirits is to be brought food and to be hugged. Beyond that, all women enjoy being listened to... intently.
2006-08-31 21:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by creative_artistguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with her. comfort her. be able to be there for her. don't put off seeing her and let her know if she needs someone to talk to your there. maybe she has all of it bobbled up in side and all she needs to do is let it out. ask her maybe "do u want to talk?" or "how u been these days?". make her feel like everything is alright.
2006-08-31 21:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by makos_swimmer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put on some Barry White and give her some sweet lovin'. That'll help.
2006-08-31 21:15:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well at a time like this she needs to be with her sister.....thats if her sister wants her there? or at least she should call her. take your wife to dinner. make her talk to you about how she feels..and what you could do to suport her in this time of need and hurt...
2006-08-31 21:14:17 · answer #9 · answered by no_to_gay_and_lesbian_marriages 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her some flowers and take her out to a relaxing dinner
2006-08-31 21:13:09 · answer #10 · answered by Mike R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋