my friend alex is one of my bff but she doesn't like Taylor another bff and Taylor doesn't like Alex what should I do?
2006-08-31 14:07:03 · 10 answers · asked by ?HOTTIE? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well spend different time with them. and everyonce in a while say something about the other *something GOOD* and like if ua dn 1 friend like to go skating, go skaating if u and the other like to.. play basketball play basketball. trust me my bff4l is friends with another gurl and we HATEE eachother.. hope it all goes swell
2006-08-31 14:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by princess =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if taylor and alex dont like eech othr, this could be a little hard, but u can work ur butt off to make them frends. or u can just hang out with them at different times, and do different things with eech of them.
2006-08-31 14:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hve the same problem with my two BF's. I told them both that i had no problem with either one of them and that i was going to associate with both parties. Even if they don't get along that wouldn't affect my realtionship with eithe one of them. When we are together I make sure that we never talk about the other and that keeps the he say she say down to am minimum>>
2006-08-31 14:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by Chynadoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there. Try hanging out with them at different times. Either they'll be okay with that or one of them will eventually go her own way. Either way, you don't have to choose between them. They shouldn't even consider making you choose between them, but some people are like that. In my own case, one of them stopped hanging out with me, but I wasn't going to tell one of them I wasn't going to be her friend because the other one didn't like it. By choosing to hang out with them separately, they will either try to get along or they'll go with that arrangement or one will split, but whatever they do, the responsibility is on them, not you, which is the way it should be.
2006-08-31 14:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend time with each seperately and never talk about the one who isn't there. If one says something negative about the other just tell them you know that they don't get along but she is a friend of yours so could they please keep negative comments to themselves.
2006-08-31 14:15:50 · answer #5 · answered by Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to be friends with them separately. They will have to understand that you love both of them, but if they cant get along then they will only get your time part of the time.
2006-08-31 14:13:48 · answer #6 · answered by laurie k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of their problem and just be a friend to both of them,
2006-08-31 14:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by Stretch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to coheres their friendship
2006-08-31 14:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by da_hammerhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heh heh...2 points!
thanks.
2006-08-31 14:15:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
split ur time.
2006-08-31 14:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by Velvet Rain Drops 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋