I am 13, a couple moths ago i looked at porn, now i am scared i am bi that i looked at wemen naked. I have a boyfriend, and i LOVE boys, but latley i have been looking at girls and think wow she is pretty and i get horny. I dont want to have sex with a girl, or a relationship. I want to get married one day and have a family. But i am so scared that i am bi. I have taken 5 quizzes on the internet and they all said i was straight, I think i am srtaight, but then sometimes i think omg what if you are bi? Can someone please help me, my mom thinks i am crazy, or i am 13 it could be just a phase and my hormones, what do u guys think???
2006-08-31 13:56:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Honey, you are 13. I think it is natural for you to have these kind of feelings. Introduction of sex and porn is so prevalent nowadays, it is very sad that you all have to be subjected to this, and have such easy access. Stay off the porn sites, and don't worry about the thoughts you are having. It is more than likely just a part of growing up.
In my opinion, and my belief, homosexuality is not natural and I don't believe for a second that it is determined to be in your blood the minute you are born. God made man and woman for a reason. If woman and woman or man and man were to multiply, then we would not need a man, and a man would not need a woman. Stay with your boyfriend. Don't get caught into the sex thing, though. Please, trust me. Don't worry about your feelings. Just know and believe that you are not gay...
2006-08-31 14:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by rach_cast 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are fine. Curiosity is fine. All of America is selling stuff with women's body's. It's OK to look, even if you feel some feelings, it doesn't mean you are bi. Hormones are crazy, growing up is crazy. Stop worrying and be whatever. Even if you were bi, you would be best off just not do anything about it until after high school when the whole clique thing is in your rear view mirror.
2006-08-31 14:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by Joyce T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal thoughts for a girl your age. Questioning your sexuality is just part of normal development, and from everything you say I think you're straight.
Since you are only 13, I'd encourage you to avoid looking at porn and not to have sex with anybody (boy or girl) for a long time (we're talking years, not weeks!), and you'll be fine in the long run.
2006-08-31 14:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by Eric 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its no big problem if you are bi. you can still do what you want you can have a family and marry a man if you are bi it it could just be that you are sexually attracted to women it doesn't mean you could fall in love with one. Don't worry about it these things progress over time on thier own if you are bi there's no reason to fight it you can't. But it doesn't mean your life is ruined or you can't marry and have a family. Everything will be fine.
2006-08-31 14:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by souless one 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is in our nature to think about, or even experiment with people of the same gender. None of this makes you ''bi'', "gay'' or ''straight''. When it comes down to it, you will know what kind of sex you prefer and hopefully realize that all of these labels are meaningless and that you will only be happy when you accept what ever it is that you are feeling.
2006-08-31 14:04:50 · answer #5 · answered by iluvmynotebook 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are straight...dont worry alot of girls get turned on seeing nake women or other sexual images because it tells your brain that something sex related may happen. This is common. Dont worry.
2006-08-31 14:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your 13 honey.....there are allot of things that you will be discovering about yourself. Take it easy and one day at a time...the answer will come to you and you will know if it is the right one.
2006-08-31 14:01:15 · answer #7 · answered by Aztek G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings are normal. It doesn't make you bisexual looking @ naked women or having feelings about women. It's a natural curiosity @ your age.
2006-08-31 14:53:13 · answer #8 · answered by Fraulein 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to "think about" or even experiment, but does NOT mean you're bi
2006-08-31 13:59:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can answer that question but yourself.. i wouldnt worry too much about it, and anyway whats so bad about being bi? there isnt anything to be ashamed of
2006-08-31 14:21:00 · answer #10 · answered by girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋