my boyfriend has been hasseling me to go there with his mates and his mates have been hasseling him cos i wont let him go becouse im jelious i feel why dose he need to go when im here? what do u think please help am i being a b**ch?
2006-08-31 13:05:55 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no u are not being a ***** everyone gets jealous. ask him to take u with him. Michael gets like that sometimes.
it's not mik i dont trust its his single friends.
i dont think its because he thinks other girls are better than u. he just wants to have a good time with mates, it probaly has nothing to do with waitresses he's just letting u know they will be there so u dont find out later and get upset. when mik went out he didnt tell me where he was going or what he was doing and i got so paranoid when he got back and i found out where he went and what he done by his sign in slips and his friends talking about it. and it turned out there was nothing to worry about. at least he is telling u whats happening. so u dont find out some other way. i say let him go once and see how he is after that. mik and i used to fight al the time because i was too jealous to let him go out now that i don't mind where he goes we get on heaps better now he knows i trust him and i know theres nothing to worry about. i think he'll be fine nothingsgoona happen remember he moved out of state and away from his family to be with u nad your baby hes not going to do anything to ruin that. he loves u too much
2006-08-31 13:18:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all reality whats going to happen there? I know that some of my mates would receive sexual favors in such establishments. If not the actual act then they would surely try to get the girls phone number for a connection after their shift....
I guess the real issue is ur having to control ur man so that he does'nt hurt himself or u or ur realationship. It is a lot of work and should be considered before the long task is undertaken.
maybe let him go... let him get pissed... and HOPE he does the right thing... which is just look...Just drink... and not to engage the girls too much....
If u let him go I bet that sooner then later he'll just want to hang out at his old favorite place...
2006-08-31 13:16:51 · answer #2 · answered by frankzappa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, you probably can't stop him if he really wants to go. Second, you could create the same atmosphere at home with your own lingerie and maybe he wouldn't want to go. You should also realize that men don't have the complicated views of sexuality that women do, and his viewing another woman in lingerie is just a male bonding thing and may have little to do with his desire for you. Third, be waiting - in lingerie - when he returns and enjoy the fruits of another woman's labor.
2006-08-31 13:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by jack w 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let my husband go to the pub. As long as you trust him enough that he won't do or say anything. I wouldn't say that you are being a b**ch, a lot of women are jealous. And are just a little self conscious.
2006-08-31 13:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to trust him and let him go with the guys. It won't be a big deal just a night out with the guys. At least he told you about it and didn't go behind your back...
2006-08-31 13:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by Bazinga 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you tell him to stay home and you'll be his lingerie waitress
I agree with you why would he want to go out if your there. Huh why guys?
2006-08-31 13:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust him and love him and he said the same to you then theres no problem. And NO your not being a btch.
2006-08-31 13:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by Love. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yea,it`s like boys are going to be boys,you can check out the guys.
2006-08-31 13:09:48 · answer #8 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dump him!!!!!
Those kinds of boys don't even deserve to have a great
girl like you!!!!!
2006-08-31 13:09:47 · answer #9 · answered by helpful hottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely no. im sure you would look hotter in lingerie than those slutty waitresses
2006-08-31 13:09:15 · answer #10 · answered by dtstuff9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋