I don't like him. The other night i took a shower. It was just me and him in the house. When i got out i was wrapped in a towel. He was coming up the hallway to his room and i was going down to my room. He shocked me by reaching out and playfully (or so i thought at the time) grabbing my towel. I tried to cover back up with it immediately but he held on to it. so there i am with no clothes on in front of my mom's boyfriend. I tried to push past him but he held me there. then he tries to touch between my thighs. I slapped him as hard as i could. He called me a *****, and a whore and all sorts of other names. And handed me back my towel. but he had this smile that said "hah! I accompished something!" I don't like him, but i don't want to tell my mom because she is very happy with him. At the same time i'm uncomfortable. I really need some help here. Do i ruin my mom's happiness so that i can be more comfortable in my house or do i leave it alone and hope it doesn't happen again? HELP!!
2006-08-31 12:32:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
TELL YOUR MOM!! But, only if this really happened. Sometimes kids become upset when their parents take a boyfriend/girlfriend, and they want to do anything to get rid of them. If this DID NOT happen, still tell your mother that you do not like him and you are uncomfortable around him. Any mother worth her salt knows that she doesn't have a choice when it comes to any man and her child.
2006-08-31 12:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if it was just you and him in the house, why did you come out in "just a towel?" Thats just asking for trouble if you ask me. You may not have intended for him to catch you but you should have known that you were taking a risk. Whats happened has happened. My first suggestion is to take your showers when your mom is at home. Second, tell your mom what happend and dont let him lie out of it. If your mom loves you like a mother should, she will listen to you and deal with HIM in the proper way.
2006-08-31 19:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by babygirl42562 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell your mom about what he did to you. Don't tell her to break up with him or anything. Just simply tell her what he did to you. The only way you can ruin your mom's happiness is by straight up telling her to dump him. If she doesn't believe you, then just do the best you can to avoid her boyfriend and if he tries anything again, tell a counselor and they may call home and then your mom will know that you aren't lying about the whole situation.
2006-08-31 20:03:51 · answer #3 · answered by lady_ellie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It would be best for you to tell her before he rapes you!
Be careful of that man, how can your mom be "happy" with a man who cheats on her ( I would bet good money on that fact) & tries to molest her daughter?!
Tell a close family member & ask them to be with you when you tell your mom if you don't feel comfortable doing it alone.
2006-08-31 19:37:14 · answer #4 · answered by lostintheclover 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, she is happy because she doesn't know what he is and the longer this goes on the more both of you are going to get hurt. He's a creep and it doesn't matter whether she likes him or not. You need to protect yourself.
2006-08-31 19:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by I love sushi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom. She wouldn't stay happy with him if she knew what was going on. A mother should always put their children first, especially in situations like that where they are in danger.
Please tell her right away. Don't wait, it will not get better and it will not go away.
2006-08-31 19:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by starlet_80 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your mom will only be happy until she finds out hes not worth being with then she'll be happy you told her. You need to tell her.
2006-08-31 19:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by whirlwind_123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your mother what happened for your safety and hers. You will be hurting you mother worse by not telling her now and she finds out later that this man is a child molester or worse.
2006-08-31 19:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You have to tell your Mom!! She will not want to be with him after this. You both deserve better!!!Please go tell your Mom now
2006-08-31 19:34:58 · answer #9 · answered by mm06840 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
GO TELL YOUR MOM NOW! NO BOY THAT AGE HAS A RIGHT TO DO ANY OF THAT TO A YOUNG GIRL EVER!!! HE NEEDS TO BE REPORTED TELL YOUR MOM NOW SHE WON'T BE HAPPY WHEN SHE FINDS OUT THAT HE IS NOT THE GUY SHE THINKS HE IS! SO PLEASE TELL HER THIS STUF HAS TO END IMMEDIATLY!!
2006-08-31 19:40:32 · answer #10 · answered by mac_lefty_05 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋