2006-08-31 11:54:00 · 17 answers · asked by JT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Is everything really OK in the relationship? Does he treat you right or is he mean to you sometimes? Does he help with the chores? The reason I am asking is because sexual desire in women is largely based on environmental factors in the relationship. Occasionally problems can be hormonal or physical. You should get a checkup before you jump to conclusions.
2006-08-31 11:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by Sabina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's normal. Because love isn't all about sex, once you go into a deeper level in a relationship you don't need sex to be happy together, if you really care about each other that's enough, Remember sex is only a part of a relationship
2006-08-31 19:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by hey people!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through the same in my relationship and we have been together for 18 years. I know the reason for me is my past. Up until about 5 years ago I was a junkie working as a street girl. My partner was also a junkie and I kept us both going for years. This has left me with no confidence and with a feeling of repulsion whenever I am touched. Although I suspect the reason for you is entirely different could there possibly be any issues from your past that are interfering with your relationship now. I strongly suggest that you confront these issues if they exist as my partner is now considering leaving me as he feels unwanted, and although this is untrue I can find no way of reassuring him. I am currently undergoing counselling but as of yet have not resolved my obstacles and fear I won't for some time. However, I firmly believe that I can turn my life around and I wish you luck in the future.
2006-08-31 19:12:27 · answer #3 · answered by tiz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Great. If he's a normal, healthy individual, who loves you, and enjoys intimacy with you, he must be feeliing locked-out, cold and heart-broken at what he has done. And your dis-interest can be the obituary of your relationship, for he shouldn't hang around too long where he isn't wanted, or certainly doesn't feel wanted.
I wouldn't.
Balls, are in your court.
2006-08-31 18:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are bored, it's become monotonous. Yes it's normal - try spicing up the sex life, bring toys into the bedroom, watch porn, give each other full body massages (i guarantee they wont last that long), have sex in different places, give him road head, have sex in the park at night or something. you are comfortable in the relationship, spice it back up...go buy some sexy lingerie or something that makes you feel damn sexy, just by lookin at yourself you are turned on. tease him in a restuarant under the table or at the movies, place your hand on his package and rub it, then when he looks at you give him a wink or blow him a kiss, lick the lips...be a vixen girl! work it!
2006-08-31 18:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I guess. There isn't that spark anymore where you have to have each other right there and then. Spice things up. If you need to, start yourself off to get in the mood. Then surprise him with a sexy outfit and go from there.
Good luck - it wont get better unless you are willing to take risks and try something new xx
2006-08-31 18:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by Joanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
six years??? I know the feeling,It is normal if by normal you mean that happened to everybody, the spark is gone and you are ready to jump on somebody else boat,you are in that stage where you learn what real love is all about , admire the guy find that stuff good on him, you have to bring the spark back, he has the same thoughts, believe me
2006-08-31 19:39:41 · answer #7 · answered by class4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you just got bored. You dont have to have sex all the time. Give it some time, then if you guys have sex, itll feel all new and exciting. Optional tip: Use warm lotion and have a lavender scent around the room.
2006-08-31 18:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by daydream♥believer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is very common - all this every day fuss drains energy. what if u dump everything (i don't know how u will manage it thou) and leave with your hubby to some fancy resort on a beach shore for 4 weeks? i bet all the passion will return. but it should be 4 weeks or more of doing nothing. one week wouldn't help. good luck. cheer up
2006-09-01 02:22:02 · answer #9 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's normal.....when you first meet that person of your dreams it's lovey dovey, dont get out of bed for a week...none stop sex...excitement...wouldnt it be great to have that all of the time, in reality it's not like that, i have been with my partner for 10 years and these days i just dont wanna know, all i want to do is sleep, sometimes i cant bare the thought of him touching me, i am in my mid 40's now and it could be something to do with my hormones but thats besides the point,,, when he wants his wicked way, i knock him back, i just dont feel like it...he whines about it saying that i am frigid, i am far from frigid, i still have that clout.... it's just that when you have been with someone for a certain amount of time, it becomes a routine, it gets stale, becomes boring, same ole same ole, it's not exciting as it used to be, so dont worry this is normal...you should talk this through with your partner and explain that sometimes you just dont feel like it, unless of course you just dont fancy that person any more, if thats the case, then have a think about your future with this person...good luck
2006-08-31 19:16:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋