I am a bisexual woman and i have a thing for people in lingerie both women and men is that strange to you, ihave recently come out of a long relationship with aguy and was glad to get out of it, now have a really cute sexy g/f but i don't think she is to serious about us maybe i am just trying to hard to find someone maybe a bit desperate but kinda lonly anyone else feel like this, wow i am confusing myself here
2006-08-31 11:36:16 · 18 answers · asked by sister 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
go with the flow chuk. maybe when you know each other better, it will get more serious. just enjoy yourselves, have fun.
if it doesn't work out, well maybe you were not right for each other, but at least you will have had fun finding out.
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love is a many splendoured thing. you never know, it might pick up soon. you have your two sets of pmt to contend with now aswell. time will tell, fingers crossed chuk.
oh yeah, and the lingerie, why noooooo man, it's not strange, just your "thing", don't worry about it. whatever paddles your canoe honey, you're harming nobody.
oh yeah, and you don't have to decide to like either men or women. you have the beautiful, enviable gift of being able to love either gender, so love yourself for that. i think maybe you're just confused as to whether the person you're with is right, not the gender, but i could be wrong. there is more to sexual orientation than just gay or str8. embrace and celebrate your bi-ness, but, if you decide you want to stick with men, i for one won't judge you.
2006-08-31 11:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by swot 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Why does everyone insist on calling her confused? She didn't state anywhere that she was confused about her sexuality. Try reading first.
As far as the relationship goes: Be happy you found someone, but don't try to push it too much. The old cliche is that when two women get together, the second date involves a u-haul. Enjoy spending time with her, and if she isn't the one for you find someone else and be happy. :)
2006-08-31 21:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by Illy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you are confused. In fact, you know exactly what you want, but probably not sure on how to approach it.... well, there are bound to be people whom you describe somewhere on this huge earth- but you need to put yourself out there. i alsways say to friends and family that they should never go searching for love or relationships- its sometrhing which should come naturally.
I think that you are struggling to catorgorise yourself- Stop right now. Society has this awful thing of placing people into catorgories, and producing, what they consider a 'normal' catorgory. if people fall outside of these 'norms' they are considered a freak or weird...
just do what makes you happy, dont worry about the likes of others. be well, hun. all the best.
2006-09-01 10:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused, by your confusion, because you're confused, by your confusion. Confused?
So you're Bi, but you like men in lingerie? Women's lingerie? So, you like men who are not 110% hetero, in their actions. Could it be you're a gay-ish woman who likes gay-ish men? There have probably been others before, of such inclination. How about shemales? Do you like them? It wouold be hard to pigeon-hole you, wouldn't it?
Ever expect so many questions, in response to yours? I forget what you were asking... Ahh, yes! Is anyone else feeling lonely? Perhaps a little like they don't quite fit? Sugar, we all feel like that at times. Just roll with it, let it be, and you'll feel better soon, when you're with the right person, you won't remember this detached feeling.
2006-08-31 18:46:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
hunny go with the flow dont look for mr/miss right just settle for miss/mr right now. May be you and your GF just aint ment to be have you tried talking toher about how you feel?
Dont worry about the lingerie thing thats up to you what you like and if it does it for you thats fine NO-ONE has the right to call you wierd or anything like that. Bet they like some differsnt stuff as well lol.
2006-09-01 07:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by tizzy_em85 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
having a thing for people in lingerie is not a problem. im a man who loves lingerie on girls and on me. i love dressing up for fun in the bedroom. as for the g/f, if your not happy you have to go. your only going to continue to feel this way im sure. maybe you need to talk to her.
2006-09-04 07:23:02 · answer #6 · answered by tony t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like men in lingerie!! You're like my friend's mom, who introduced her gay daughter to a gay man and wondered why they wouldn't get together when they were both gay!!! And you say you're confused!
2006-09-04 09:41:14 · answer #7 · answered by AL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can i have a drink too.look im gonna give you some straight to the point advice.its second hand advice but never mind.you have to go through the wheat to get to the chaffe...crap how do you spell that word??
2006-09-01 13:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a man in lingiere. (have a nice pair of panties on this morning under my trousers at work!) I see absolutely nothing wrong with liking both men and women in lingiere!
2006-09-01 05:29:36 · answer #9 · answered by bobbi b 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
isn't bi-sexual a synonym for confused??? Or maybe u don't know what u are yet. Think maybe you should seek help that doesn't require alcohol consumption.
2006-09-03 21:32:35 · answer #10 · answered by bob w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋