Im about to break. Im 4 months prego, stressed, my hormones are un-stable, and to top this off i have a boyfriend who is so mean to me for no reason.. Im so emotinal and for him to say the things he says are just messed up. For him to tell me he has a new girlfriend and that im just stupid and that im a stupid hick that cant do anything.. Im just screaming inside.. I have given all I can to him for the past 2 years and it still isn't enough.. he says i'll never be enough...im tired of his short smarta*s remarks.. and after all of this he texts me you can call me if you want and i dident and he called me. why is he saying he wants to break up and just keeps calling? IM SICK OF THE EMOTINAL ABUSE AND STRESS! he thinks he is so smart but he is effing retarded
2006-08-31 11:17:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
lisa idc what you have to say :) this really isn't your problem and if you were really smart you could figure out i was asking for advise...not "venting". I dont need guidelines hun.
2006-08-31 11:50:33 · update #1
He's doing this for two reasons:
1. He's abusive.
2. You let him.
The abuse isn't going to stop until you stop taking his calls, his emails and his IMs. Block his friggin number (call the phone company to do this). Then don't contact him until it is time to take him to court for child support.
You don't need this and deserve far better, and the last thing that is good for your child is to watch its momma take such garbage from anyone, let alone dad.
Kick him to the curb and fast!
2006-08-31 11:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by Lori A 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't sound like he would be a good father either... do something that may be a risk! but for you and the baby would be best!
LEAVE HIM
go to him or call him and say you know what i just thought of something your so wrong you will never be enough for me then take all that emotion and expel it onto him tell him the same smart remarks he makes to you back at and end with you know what just don't ever bother calling me anymore! I will let you sign the birth papers then you can send me money for child support ...
if you want to see the kid get a f'''n lawyer!
Your prego so get that back bone you'l;l need with the kid on the way !
you don't need a man to raise one either if my mom did you can too! she was poor and jobless manless when she had me! YOU CAN DO IT!
YES YOU CAN
Good luck
Mad luv
2006-08-31 11:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetie...he's not the only one who's "effing retarded".
He treats you like **** and you're still talking to him?
He tells you you'll "never be enough" and all you do is "scream inside"?
He's obviously a self centered prick that calls you when it's convenient. Like maybe when the other girl isn't around...
Right now...the most important thing ...is that baby in your belly. You shouldn't be LETTING HIM STRESS YOU OUT.
Stay away from him and focus on you and your baby.
Tell that jack a s s to lose your number...and then stick to it.
2006-08-31 11:40:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you letting him have all the power in the relationship? You are letting him determine how you are going to live your life. It's time for you to take your life into your own hands and dump the loser. He's emotionally abusive and nobody deserves to be treated the way he is treating you. And your baby doesn't deserve to raised around such an as*hole either. Get rid of him and don't take him back when he comes whining and saying he's sorry or that he's changed.
2006-08-31 11:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, I know you are pg, but you really need to end this relationship. It is not right bringing a children into the world when you and the father already do not have a healthy relationship. Be good to yourself and the baby, get rid of him and do this on your own. Find a man (in the future) that respects you and will love you unconditionally.
2006-08-31 11:22:20 · answer #5 · answered by ShanaJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need this stress now! It's bad for the baby and for you! Turn off your phone and take a break from this guy. I doubt it will get any better between the two of you when you actually have the baby. Talk to someone, get a counselor, try and get over this guy!
Good luck and take care of yourself and your sweet baby.
2006-08-31 11:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by clueless: please be kind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to contact you local police department and explain the situation so that they can advise you of what steps to follow to get rid of the abuse that you are suffering.
If he calls you again tell him that you have contacted the police and that they are dealing with it now but don't be rude or ignorant to him even though you want to and after you are done talking on the phone to him scream and punch a a pillow as hard as you can and that will help you relieve some stress
if you need or want someone to talk to about this you can contact me at anytime at hotmama4476@yahoo.ca
2006-08-31 11:24:11 · answer #7 · answered by Dawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely get away from him- you don't want any unnecessary stress during your pregnancy, it could be harmful to baby.
My ex was just like you describe, he was a complete a** then threatened to punch me in the stomach- after that I got rid of him & although it's been hard, I've been so much happier since.
2006-08-31 11:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys sound like my parents. I know you are pregnant and all but you need to get out now! It only gets worse and you'll feel like you've waisted your life away. Besides, you really don't need this stress and emotional abuse right now, or ever for that matter. Get Out!
2006-08-31 11:26:23 · answer #9 · answered by Violet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing worse than extra stress on a pregnancy. you have enough to worry about. if he wants to be a part of your life then he will come around. personally it sounds as if you will be better off if he just stays away. there is nothing you can't handle. give him the finger and walk away girl.
2006-08-31 11:31:21 · answer #10 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋