what do i do now she tells me to do stuff for her and then she calles me a retarted. She tells me about this creapy guy so i told her to stop texting him, yah now to protect her and she says you can't tell me what to do, yet she was the one that wanted me to always be there for her and help her when she starts thinking of stupid things that she can do. then i was going to hang out with some other friends and she says to them i can't and she told me to get in the car. i fealt like swearing at her but i just said no l, she was about to come and pull me in the car i just started walking with my other friends, and it's not like i was hanging with a bad group cus she was with us for awile then her mom came to pick her up. just because she couldn't stay out longer she trys to make me come. she's so controlling. where steal friends but what can i do to make her think that she can't use me?
2006-08-31 11:08:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk to her about it
2006-08-31 11:11:56 · answer #1 · answered by thatdumbgnome 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey Stef, how are you. Look, people change. The fact that you have been friends with her since the english settler came to U.S soil, does not say anything. Cruel or not, life and many things change people. And even though that you might think she's still your friend, she is not. My girlfriend recently went through a lot with a "friend" of hers. It took her a little while (and something that happened!) to figure out she was NOT her true friend. This does not mean that she is not a good person, but the way she was treating her, was just not fair for her. The day she stopped talking to her she told me "i can feel like a huge weight finally off my shoulders. I'm not talking to her anymore"....
All i can tell you Stef, is that you should think about it, DON'T let anybody treat you like a rag. you are worth it more thatn waht you think, and if you don't have another "true" friends, then let life find them for you.
Take care!
2006-08-31 18:18:35 · answer #2 · answered by k. Osle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.ignore her 4 just a little bit.
2.if she still bosses you around then tell her about the good times you both use to have with each other.
3.if she doesn't stop or Care then just ask her why she keeps telling you what to do and being so bossy.
2006-08-31 18:19:58 · answer #3 · answered by Kristin Pardue 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can simply DUMP this douche bag in the nearest toilet you can find right now !!! You are amazing, you know? all these insults and you stick to this character and complain about it? are you a slave or did she cast a spell on you? wake up and be the master of yourself.
2006-08-31 18:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her so, and then show her. It isn't a friend that will use you and talk down to you. Friends help each other and respect each
other. They are there for you, to support you, not tear you down.
You deserve to be respected!
2006-08-31 18:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats how my friend for 6 years treated me. cept she EVEN told every1 i was her b*tch and i follow her around and does everything she wants me to do for her. if she continues using you, tell her ur not her b*tch! ur not gonna carry out every1 of her little royal wishes cuz ur not her slave!!! make it clear to her!! get it through her thick head. even if you've been friends since preschool, shes changed now hasn't she? she's not the same girl u met in preschool.
2006-08-31 18:12:38 · answer #6 · answered by Janeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can stop letting her use you. It's not like she *actually* has any power over you. The only power she has over you is because you let her have it. Stop being a baby, and she'll stop treating you like one!
2006-08-31 18:20:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
when you told her what to do thats probably when she got mad. He isnt a creep to her Tell her youre sorry and maybe she will stop name calling If not good riddance
2006-08-31 18:12:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋