2006-08-31 11:08:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you "love and trust each other," then a pre-nup shouldn't be a problem, right? This would eliminate any question about the motivation behind the marriage in the minds of many people.
Good luck!
2006-08-31 11:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, youre 61 with a 25 year old girlfriend. Youre definitely every guys idol. Youre the man! Anyhow, do you really care what people think? If you two are really in deep love then nothing else matters and do whatever you two feel is right. Love doesnt come with rules or an instruction manual so when true unconditional love comes, anything goes. Love knows no age boundaries, but together you two can conquer all including non believers. So if marriage is what you two want then by all means go for it, as life is short so theres no sense in wasting it here. Good luck and God bless you and yours.
2006-08-31 11:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, is this a joke?
You can love each other and not be married.
Its not even the age difference, per say, but that 25 is too young these days to be married.
Why not keep it at friends, isnt that what you really care about anyways? Seeing each other and talking.
If you were married, you would outcast her socially for the rest of her life, prevent her from marrying someone her own age, cause an extremly bad situation were you to have children. If you care for her, let her meet someone else.
2006-08-31 11:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you will end up with a broken heart. The age difference WILL come back to haunt you, I know. My husband is 21 years younger than I. All the things we thought we had in common with each other drifted away soon after marriage. Best to stay friends and leave it at that.
2006-08-31 11:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as long as neither of you are below the age of 18 than age doesn't dictate if anythings appropriate, Only the two of you dictate what happens. Go for it
2006-08-31 11:27:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre grown adults and probably dont have a parent to question the relationship (maybe kids? hehe) Anyway, if you two already trust each other...what's not to love? If you have grown kids and 'they' question her motive, set aside their separate inheritance in a trust. They are entitled you know. I think that would be their only concern. (your grand and great grandchilren's future) Hey! Just being honest here.
2006-08-31 11:13:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have money!!!
Get married and what? Have a child that you will never get to see graduate from college ? Leave her to raise them by herself?
Love and trust are terriffic, and I am proud for you that you have this....but believe me, the age difference WILL become a problem down the road!
2006-08-31 11:15:59 · answer #7 · answered by shortfrog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she 25 in May?
All depends on what you both want. If you believe that she can love you as you continue to age, great! If you are extremely financially well off.. I would recommend a very tight prenup. Enjoy
2006-08-31 11:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by puresatin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ages never manner in love. With the love and the trust, I think you should go for the passion you two have together.
Good luck.
2006-08-31 11:13:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. She is looking to a father figure rather than a peer, and the fact that she wants to marry a father figure is problematic from a perspective of her emotional health.
Sorry.
2006-08-31 11:12:31 · answer #10 · answered by wallysierk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋