my husband was chatting to other women sexually instead of wanting me and when i asked why he does he said that i was fat and tired, bearing in mind i was size12 and not long had our daughter. what would you had done?
2006-08-31 11:08:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ya shoulda kicked him in the dickbag
2006-08-31 11:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by ibrushallday 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, my ex had an affair and blamed it on me. He said I was too old, too fat, too ugly, and too boring. Strange he never mentioned those things when he married me.
He found someone younger, thinner, prettier, and more exciting. She did a number on him! She was seeing at least 4 other men without him knowing it. He was with her for 8 years and was the joke of the town.
I figure he got what he wanted, then got what he deserved.
2006-08-31 18:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're the one who married this @sshole, not us... How can we tell you what to do? You must have had REALLY good reasons to marry a guy who doesn't have any respect for you, so......
Lose weight and stop being so tired, maybe he will want you more!!
(And don't worry about his lack of respect, just continue ignoring it as before.)
2006-08-31 19:03:27 · answer #3 · answered by codex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister-biblically there is no excuse for infidelity and sexual conversation falls in that category. Your husband is called to love you as his own body, nourish and cherish you. You are called to forgive him though. It was mean and harsh and uncalled for, but God says forgive. He can change your husband though. I dont know if you are christian but I encourage you both to seek God's Word according to what marriage means. Here are some places to start...
http://www.bible.org/page.asp?page_id=1721
http://www.bible.org/page.asp?page_id=2432
God bless you and keep you...
2006-08-31 18:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you begin chatting with someone who loves your curves and size 12. Let him know you are bored with him too, see how he reacts to that.
2006-08-31 18:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by Golden Scepter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i would have kicked him in the goolies. then told him he was looking after the baby and taken his credit card out shopping for a new hair cut, new wardrobe and a good piss up with me mates.
2006-08-31 18:23:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
id prob be reported if i write what id have done lol but u dont need to take shite like that from ur man. id be giving him a piece of my mind
2006-08-31 18:12:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him to the curb then call me i love curvy ladies
2006-08-31 21:39:02 · answer #8 · answered by trevor l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the kerb he will not change
2006-08-31 18:13:06 · answer #9 · answered by Blackduchess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha! luky u, i would have dumped/divorced u, ure fat! or was.. anyhow... u sound good, 3 som??
2006-09-01 09:19:42 · answer #10 · answered by tariq k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋