how can i tell if my fella is cheating?

Answer 1

I prayed that God would show me what was wrong in my marriage, and one day I came home to find the computer on and my husbands emails to another woman in full view, which isn't supposed to happen on windows XP. He still lied a lot and I thought he was working in Wales when in reality he was having sex with a girl in Ireland.....I knew by all the clues around and eventually he told me the truth and now we are getting our marriage back on track, but just remember, a man will tell a thousand lies, and tell you he did it to protect you from getting hurt when he really did it out of fear. Most men don't want to leave their wives but do we really know how to keep them? There's a website that helped me and I'll give you the link. I hope you find a way to sort this out.

Answer 2

You can do quite a few things;

1) Check what time he is leaving home and coming home. If the times are later, the possibility is high.
2) Check his cell phone for incoming and outgoing calls with unusual numbers.
3) Follow him around on a random day to see where he is going.

However, if he isn't being suspicious and you just happen to be a worrier, don't let that be the reason to snoop on him. Only snoop on a guy and his things if you have reasonable belief to do so.

Answer 3

Hmm it's hard to tell if he is or isn't but here are some clues:-

1. If he's making more effort in his appearence
2. If his sex drive has either increased or decreased.
3. If he comes in and goes straight for a shower or bath
4. He buys you a present for no reason (guilt).
5. His attitude towards you becomes more or less loving.
6. He whistles when he walks round the house (dunno why read it somewhere).
7. His phone rings and he turns it off or goes out of the room to answer it.

You should also check his phone and his boxers. I know you should trust your bf etc but hey this is the real world!

Answer 4

To be honest with you, I would not look for anything, it will come to you.What he does in the dark will come out in the light.If you don't trust your fella well then,you should think about your relationship with him.Trust is one of the important qualities a relationship should be based upon

Answer 5

Darling! You won't know and can't tell!! Trust is a major factor in the workings of a relationship. Most people don't find out but through the hard way..and that is catching him red handed.

Answer 6

This guy is an fool. If he fairly loves her he would not be cheating. i might actually enable her understand whats been occurring. I mean its purely a remember of time besides cuzz the reality of the subject is... Its no longer if he gets caught yet while he gets caught. extra helpful to purely enable her understand ASAP that way she dosnt build much extra emotions for him. Its a tragic undertaking!

Answer 7

Ask him out of the blue in a matter of fact tome, works a charm, you'll have put him on the spot and you will know instantly by his face before he utters a word if he is or not.

Answer 8

He comes home late. His cell phone rings and when you pick up, the person hangs out. He says he's going out with his guy friends too much. Has less sex with you, or more sex with you. He comes home and goes straight to the bathroom (to clean up). He dresses better or takes care of his appearance better. He treats you better, or worst. He agrees to what you want mostly, or it could be the opposite.

Answer 9

Assuming that you have reason to suspect that he is, then why not ask him straight out. If you know him well you'll know from his reaction whether he's telling the truth or lying to you - you'll catch him unaware, so you'll get a genuine reaction.

Answer 10

All the above....But i would just ask him, and take a look at cell phone numbers, internet histories, and I agree appearance, gifts, and unusual hours are usually signs.