controlling?
2006-08-31 11:02:13 · 17 answers · asked by tacoman2084 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I don't know what I would do, but that's exactly what happened with my parents, and after a year they got back together, he left in three different occasions and now we are all OK...
Something was bad then, actually everything, and now they changed as persons, I could say, even being their daughter that they grown. But now, they grow together.
2006-08-31 11:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by Cass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are the one controlling the situation anymore since it is him who wants the divorce. If you still want to be in your marriage, I would strongly suggest that you offer to enter into some type of counseling. This may give you some insight into what makes you so controlling. You also stated that this happened suddenly. If you think back, I believe that you will admit that it has been brewing for a long time. Your husband has finally had enough.
2006-08-31 11:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tie him up until he decided he wants to work on the relationship.
Seriously? I'd be pretty upset if it came out of left field. If he's correct in his accusation, you could try to be less controlling and ask if he's willing to see if you can be less controlling.
If someone feels that their spouse is too controlling, they should say that and see if it's something that can be worked on. not just suddenly dumped on the person like 'you suck, you're controlling, i want a divorce.'
But kind of funny... if it's the other way around, like the husband is the controlling one I'd probably think "get out of there honey" maybe because husbands often are physically stronger and controlling often times equals physical abuse.
2006-08-31 11:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by stimply 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to set up a romantic date where we could talk about both the positive and the negative issues in our relationship.
Offer to seek a marriage counsellor, that would be a sure sign that you are willing to work on your marriage. If he refused,it would seem to me that he would be the one who is not willing to give up "control" of deciding what is wrong,and how things will end up. Good Luck! If you both truly love each other it will work out with a little effort on both parts.
2006-08-31 11:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by Ayla's Fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wouldn't , coz being too controlling would stand out at least in the first 3 months to know each other.
men who get a divorce for that usually have other hidden reasons....and i don't think i'll marry one of them.
2006-09-01 10:39:11 · answer #5 · answered by still breathing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I'd be less controlling. Or I'd get a divorce.
2006-08-31 11:04:54 · answer #6 · answered by AngiesHusband 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could not get lucky enough for my husband to want a divorce
2006-08-31 11:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by crazi8red 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him he couldn't have his divorce and chain him back up in our basement until he got over this divorce thing!!!!
lol
2006-08-31 11:07:19 · answer #8 · answered by daack7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should try 2 talk with him and be less controlling
2006-08-31 11:06:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grant him the divorce and act like you are happy about it. he will come begging for you back. It will make him wander what is up.
2006-08-31 11:05:36 · answer #10 · answered by beavis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋