i hate it in my house my school and i need help do u have any advise 4 me???
2006-08-31 10:59:28 · 15 answers · asked by juicy fruit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I had the same feelings. finish school. no drugs. no sex. stay focus on school and staying out of trouble. stop smoking, its n0ot cool.
2006-08-31 11:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by brian b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be easier to help you if I knew more specifically what it is at home and at school that is bothering you. I'll just try based on what I know about me. I understand feeling like you hate your life and something I always wish I would have done is talk to someone I can really trust about everything that is bothering me. If none of your friends are close enough to you for all that, than try a teacher or counselor you like. If you don't have any of that than what I would do is what I'm doing as my own little therapy thing right now (I wouldn't lie about this.. it is actually working for me). What I'm doing is Writing down all the things I feel I should write in a notebook. I write about what I need to let go of. What I think will be a part of my past (meaning things that are out of my control that won't bother me someday). What I want to be apart of my future. You can't write anything you aren't ready to let go of yet, and when you feel like everything in the notebook isn't of use to you anymore (when all the bad things you wrote about are gone, and when you've pretty much gotten the things you want for your future) then you burn it. Burning it means you are finally happy with things the way they are. If anytime after you've burned the book you become unhappy, than start over with a new one. You should understand that this may not work for you, but I didn't think it would work for me and now I feel good about keeping up with it. You write totally by your rules, you don't have to set a date or anything, and if you think it would help you, you could even change the directions I just gave you. I know there are times when life can suck, but I also know that it can change, and probably will. I wish you luck no matter what it is you decide to do but I really hope you will give this a try.
2006-08-31 11:19:43 · answer #2 · answered by Jillian D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look at the more positives things in life and you'll be a much happier person. You hate your house, but at least you have a shelter and a place that you can go to. You hate your school, but you have a place where you can learn and expand your mind. Also, think of the friends you got and the people you can help and all of the people that love you. Once you realize how great your life is compared to someone who is living in a 3rd world country and start counting your blessings, you'll find life more fun and more enjoying.
2006-08-31 11:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by Tim-Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your life and what you do with it is in your hands.You have to like yourself before you can like others.You are a teenager and many of the things you "hate" about your life are the same or similar problems other teens experience.Try stay focused on your education, join some afterschool activities and have a relationship with you parents.Listen to each other not just talk.You'd be surprised what each has to say.Have dreams and hopes.
2006-08-31 14:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by gussie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My only advice would be to be grateful for what you have. The fact that you have a roof over your head and a school to go to is taken for granted here in North America. But some kids in poorer countries don't have this luxury so please take a good look at what you have and realize that things could always be worse. Best of luck to you. Sorry for sounding like a father, but...
2006-08-31 11:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not hardship you at the instant are not on my own. i think of, notwithstanding if human beings desire to admit it or not, have hated their life. i be responsive to that I even have and that i too sense on my own. this is a tough pill to swallow however the way I "recover from it" is to think of approximately changing some thing approximately my each and on a daily basis habitual. How am I going to fulfill new human beings? what's honestly bothering me? this is okay to cry yet do not rigidity out. this is tough to admit, yet somebody accessible is having a worse life than you, so be grateful of what you do have. additionally, there is a minimum of one guy or woman that fairly cares for you so don't get your self down. only bear in concepts attempt some thing distinctive and new. you're able to desire to ask your self your self at how relaxing life has by surprise develop into. sturdy success and enable me be responsive to how each and every thing is going as quickly as in awhile. various affection from Tubby :)
2016-10-01 03:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I have been in the same spot. I cried out to God. Went to church got saved and live by Gods word. I'TS GREAT And you wont understand it until it happens to you
2006-08-31 11:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by white dove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a moment is everyonez life when tthey hate thier life more thn anething...so itz not sumthing new....sum ppl hav a courage to fight with it,,,sum become losers n thn get drunked all da time n finally when nothing helpz them they suicide (freakin loosers).......believe me if ull see from sumone else'z eyez ur life is very gud.....da thingz u hav,,sumone wudnt be havin anethin of tht.....da ppl who luv u verymuch,,,sum ppl dun even hav a person to luv them............so try seeing ur life from sumone elses life n ull see how beautiful ur life is n u will start luving it.......
2006-08-31 11:08:13 · answer #8 · answered by pSyChO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many hate different things, but eventually you will move on and find new things to hate, what a life to look forward to
2006-08-31 11:03:27 · answer #9 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn how to help others and that'll teach you how to love what you're doing to them.
2006-08-31 11:03:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋