Seriously guys, if your buddy is doing his lady wrong. At what point do you step in a say enough is enough. Either leave her, or tell her whats going on. I am tired of lying to protect his hide. She is such a sweet girl and desrves better, for 1, & 2, it's not like they are married anyway. I am not jealous either, but I think I have to break the code.
ps - I know their may be some squables after this, but it is the right moral thing to do!!
2006-08-31 10:53:02 · 6 answers · asked by O Jam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am not at all interested in the girl...let me make that clear!!! I just try to treat women with a certain amount of respect....the whole Kharma thing!!
2006-08-31 11:10:01 · update #1
Sounds to me like you are way ahead of your friend in the area of maturity. It has less to do with any "code" and more to do with the scenario of how would you like to be treated. If you were dating a girl, and her friend knew she was treating you badly, would you want to know? It seems to me that you're a stand-up kind of person. There aren't enough of your kind in the world. Stand up, do the right thing, and at least let the young lady know what she's dealing with.
2006-08-31 12:07:27 · answer #1 · answered by shellb7088 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl and I say stay out of it unless the girl is your friend. You're better off salvaging the friendship then throwing it away for some girl you're not even going for.
2006-08-31 18:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by lilquriuzwun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think she's deserves to know the truth tell her; just be careful because your basiclly choosing her over him. If it bothers that badly talk to him first and if he doesn't do that right moral thing then you do it.
2006-08-31 17:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is wrong to ask you to cover for him. And you need to tell him you won't go along with it anymore.
Your friendship with him will end if you tell the girl - so unless you want her for yourself, leave it be.
2006-08-31 18:34:31 · answer #4 · answered by ingy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to keep your friend stay the hell out of it....and tell him you are not going to cover for him anymore. you will find out how good a friend he really is. if you have interest in the girl.......talk but watch your back
2006-08-31 18:05:04 · answer #5 · answered by fn_49@hotmail.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a guy but i think u should tell him to stop or u will tell her..that would be the moral thing to do
2006-08-31 17:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by ROCKSTAR*CHICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋