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Question

ok i found out my cousin likes the person i like and i am so mad at her because she always does this to me!!!! she said she likes someone else more than him though. i am soo frustrated and i know i shouldn't be about a guy but she really made me mad. I do admit i look better than her though...lol.

Answer 1

Get to know the boy better. Ask him about what his hobbbies are research the thing he likes to do, then if possible try it, and yall can do that hobby together tehn BOOm he will like u not ur cousin.

Answer 2

Hey,

I'm 14, and I've been in this situation many a time... but really, who cares if your cousin likes the same guy you do? I mean, what's the real problem? You aren't going out with the boy, so it's not as if she will "steal him from you".... on account of a couple of reasons.

1) You're not going out with him.
2) Even if you were, there's no such thing as a girl stealing a boyfriend from another, because the guy must like one girl more, and thus he chooses to go out with her over you, or whatever the case may be.

You say you're really mad and frustrated with her... I just don't know why. Being mad over someone just because they share the same crush as you do is really just a waste of your own time... it's like, don't bother.

You and him aren't going out, so you really should get over it. You also said she always does this to you.... does what? Likes your crushes? Maybe she has similar tastes in guys as you?

Technically, I don't know what the actual question was. What advice to you want us to give you? You haven't actually asked anything.

But since this is still considered a question, I'm going to give you this advice: Get over it... you and him aren't dating. Until you are, you have nothing to be so annoyed/angry about. You are acting stereotypically: throwing a tantie because your cuz likes the guy you do.... in 5 or 10 years time, do you REALLY think you'll be worrying about the same guy, or the same problem you're having now with your cousin? No. There are plenty of fish in the sea.... you and your cousin will find the right guy eventually. But for the meantime, stop stressing.

Love electricarizona

Answer 3

next time dont tell her the truth, but dont let her see that you are doing that. Simply lead her off, tell her you like someone you actually don´t so she won't get her eyes on the guy you really like. That happened to me and that's what I did, I think she was like that because she was always envious of me and when I did that, she ended up with the guy I said I liked ( but I didn't) and I actually got the guy I liked, she thought I wasn't really in love with him, cause she had stolen my guy first, lol

Answer 4

Keep your love life out of her life. I had a cousin who did the same thing to me it was soooooooo...... annoying. But of course i always got the guy.................lol. But don't let her get to you she's just trying to make you jealous because she thinks yur better than her and she doesn't like that at all.
Hope I helped!!!!!

Answer 5

If you look better than her why, are you so empowered by the fact that she likes the same guy as you?

Answer 6

next time don't tell her who u like and then u should ask the dude to a movie or something.....

Answer 7

Kill Her
Oh And When you do that can you give me her flesh so i can cure Pinocchio and turn him into a real boy
God May she r.i.p.
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Answer 8

Stupid jealousy question.Who cares there r many guys.

Answer 9

next time dont tell her who u like!!!

Answer 10

smack her!