How will you react if you tell your husband not to do something and he does it anyway? I am not meaning cheating and porn, but other things you don't want him to do.
2006-08-31 10:48:36 · 18 answers · asked by tacoman2084 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I pick my battles carefully. If they are worth fighting over then I will talk to him about it. I try and not let the little things bother me because I feel my realtionship is bigger than any disagreement I will ever have with him. If it is something minor i let it slide- but usually only once or twice- past that i talk to him. that is the secret to a successful relationship. Open Communication.
2006-08-31 10:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It pisses me off. I smack him down on the floor, put my boot on his head, stuff a dirty sock in his mouth and put a piece of duck tape over it. Then, I kick him in the left rib cage, grab him by the hair to roll him onto his stomach, and tie his hands behind his back with the closest power cord. If he struggles, he gets kicked in the ribs again. If he goes quietly, I usually won't put the wax on his leg. But anyways, after he is all good and tied up, I drag him into the bathroom by his hair, throw him into the wall and watch him slide into the floor. I fill up the bathtub with scalding hot water and dunk his face a few times. Then, I cut off the lights, lock the door and leave him in there for 5 days straight. Immediately, I go into the next room and leave a message on his bosses voice mail that my husband has taken ill and won't be in for a few days. That way, nobody comes looking for him.
2006-08-31 17:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never "tell" my husband to do something, but I'll ask nicely the first million times. He never says no, but, frankly, he nearly always "forgets." I've been asking him to put his dirty clothes in the hamper for 12+ years. Sigh. I tend to let kind of thing go for a long time; then blow up at him when I'm stressed and stumble across a mountain high pile of sweaty clothes... or even over a worn pair of underwear. Probably not the healthiest thing to do.
When I accuse him of not listening to me, he asks, "What?" He thinks that it's hilarious, and I must admit it usually makes me laugh.
2006-08-31 18:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by Caritas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It bothers me. I wish there was a tried and true way to respond to it well but everyone is different. With my husband if I say "I asked you to do X and you didn't..." he gets all down and will say "I'm sorry, I disappointed you..." That part of it bugs me more than him not doing what I asked.
A no-win situation.
2006-08-31 17:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by stimply 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK if it is not affairs, Internet porn
Why would I tell him what to do and what not to do???
He doesn't tell me.
We check with each other first and we are good about knowing what the other likes and dislikes, but still i don't own him nor does he own me.
2006-08-31 17:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by daack7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are real slow. If you ask them to hand you something a month later you finally get it. I get ill with all men because they are slow. If you have male children you have probably noticed.......I get mad. I try to remember they can't help it. They are male.
2006-08-31 17:51:17 · answer #6 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's a man, which basically means that you sometimes have to apply reverse psychology.
2006-08-31 18:00:55 · answer #7 · answered by brownsugar_smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel pretty hurt if he did something while knowing I didn't agree with it. Luckily, that hasn't happened yet in our relationship.
2006-08-31 17:51:30 · answer #8 · answered by save_me_now 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wud slap him behind the head and not give him sex for a week if i can stay that long witout it myself.
2006-08-31 18:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by a_raveneau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be disappointed, but not angry. It also depends on the situation.
2006-08-31 17:50:35 · answer #10 · answered by i_luv_the_irish23 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋