bisexuals big question why??? just pick one!!!?

Question

im not trying to be mean or any thing i just want to know why u choose to be bi sexual im a lesbian and i know what i want
i want a woman. i dont see how people can hop one minute u want a man and one minute u want a women sometimes i think that they try have thier cake and eat it to and sometimes i think they are so confused about who they are

im not hatin i just dont understand

thanks a lesbian

Answer 1

I think the best way to answer this is I'm Bi due to pressure to be straight and I'm just lucky enough to be able to hold down a straight relationship. Like with me if I had the choice without hurting anyone I go to the other side of the street and yes some people frown at this I know but I've always put other people before me so here I am in the closet with the dust bunnies..

Oh and note I been married more years then most straight couples, not that it matters..

Answer 2

haha. As a gay man sometimes I see what you mean. I don't think bisexuals can control their feelings any more than homosexuals, they just learned to love both sexes easily and aren't thinking of which one satisfies them more but the person behind the body and compliments them at the time. I have however met too many men that wanna hook up and be with me now, but still plan on leaving later in life to get married and have kids with women which has made me lose some faith in bi-men. Bi-women that is more understandable and credible in my eyes...

Answer 3

In the same way that you (and I) know that you are (and I am) a lesbian, the truly (not just playing around for fun) bisexual person doesn't CHOOSE to be bisexual. They ARE bisexual.

There is no confusion, they just have the ability to form romantic relationships with both genders. You telling them to just pick one is the same as a straight person telling you to just love a man, like a normal woman does. It's insulting.

It may seem odd to you and I, but remember how odd and confused we seem to a lot of straight people.

Answer 4

I'm trying to find a nice way to say this... but I don't think there is one.

If you can't understand that some people are *different* then you are, then you are very stupid.

Its not personal, I don't know you, but what you wrote is basically a variation of "everyone who isn't me is confusing and irritating". You're asking the same question as someone who asks how men can find other men attrative or how someone can believe in god or how someone can enjoy sushi.

People. Are. Different.

I'm bisexual because it makes perfect sense to me, it is a label that easily reflects my thoughts and feelings. I would be miserably sad if I had to restrict myself to only sexual experiances with the opposite sex. I would be just as miserably sad if I had to restrict myself to only having sex with women. If you can't understand that, then you're not very bright.

Answer 5

Married bisexual g0y here. We have no choice if we are truly bi. we just love who we love and it is not something we can control. I love my wife and have been married 20 years but I love a man too we have never had sex but we are so much in love it hurts. I love my wife just as much as my G0y man.

Answer 6

Well, I'm kinda bi. I define myself as queer. (The new bisexual! lol) For me it isn't about the body, it's about the person. I find myself attracted to people regardless of what's between their legs.

Answer 7

No one can choose their sexuality. It's already predetermined before we're born.

Answer 8

i remember when i was younger i was bsexual but know i only date girls. its just that i found myself attracted to both genders. its just how straight people ask gays how are they attracted to the same gender.

Answer 9

so what do you do if you really like a mans penis and womens breast?

Answer 10

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