see, I've been going out, but not really seriously dating, this really hot guy and we ended up having sex last night after a few drinks. And it was great and everything, but he's really kinky and I've never had a partner who was into kink and stuff. I mean this guy wanted me to tie him up, but I couldn't find anything...
Any ideas?
2006-08-31 10:21:23 · 9 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well if it matters that much and you wanna keep seeing him, then I suggest you take a little trip to the porn shop with him. There you guys can decide on what to get and what kind of activities you want to get involved in....
2006-08-31 10:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by Freddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can try and use just about anything to tie him up.You could use sheets or a belt or even a a couple of ties.Or try visiting your local adult book store or adult gift shop.
The question I would be asking myself is: "am I comfortable with this?".If you are and/or think you could get into that then the best of luck to you.Just keep it safe and sane and have fun!
2006-08-31 17:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by BuckFush 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm sorry I am not into fetishes besides well does belly button smooching count as a fetish? Anyway you need to just do only what you are comfortable with. A person who loves you will respect you and if he respects you he will discuss things like this with you to find out what you are cool with and where the boundaries are.
2006-08-31 17:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play along with him. Sex is only as fun as you make it, and other people need a little excitement. If you like the guy, play with him and he'll do the same for what ever you want
2006-08-31 17:30:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep a roll of duct tape in the trunk.
1001(1000 and 1) uses for duct tape.
2006-09-04 00:17:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you enjoyed things so far and would like to take further you need to have a conversation with him and tell him youa re not used to it but willing to learn!
2006-08-31 17:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could just go with it and see what happens. You never know if you would like it if you didn't try.
2006-08-31 17:36:40 · answer #7 · answered by justincausejustintime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't like that stuff, just tell him. he'll understand.if you do rent somethig on cable and watch it togther!
2006-08-31 17:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by veg3rdchair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what matters is if you like him.
2006-08-31 17:38:18 · answer #9 · answered by mickel230 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋