orgasm when they go down on you? If so is there a trick to it. I have never expierence one and I feel like I can't. I have friends that have. I am 25 yr. and still haven't is it abnormal?
2006-08-31 10:18:04 · 21 answers · asked by Susa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You just need to relax and not think about it.
2006-08-31 10:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by D M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've had an orgasm once this way. You need to have your head in the right place and have the guy take his time. I always worry I'm taking too long and that ruins everything. It still feels good, but if your abnormal than I'm even more abnormal. I'm 30. Don't worry about it. As long as you can get yourself off than just be grateful the guy is talking the time out to do it all.
2006-08-31 17:23:43 · answer #2 · answered by court 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem and still at 38 have a hard time relaxing in that position.It helps if you tell your man to blindfold you and leave the lights low or off and just soak into the feeling and not just the act.Let your man know that you feel insecure about this position and he will accomidate this and help you relax if he wants to please you.I now love when I can relax and enjoy being pleased.Good luck!
2006-08-31 17:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by Pitdog1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not abnormal, you're probably just tense. When I feel like I'm being rushed to orgasm... it never "comes"! Just relax and find a guy who knows how to work it!
2006-08-31 17:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 22 and when my husband goes down on me I always orgasm if you don't it doesn't mean you have a problem when your man goes down on you you have to be relaxed and only think about you and him if stress is going on in your life or your worrying it will be hard to reach a orgasm you got to be focused
2006-08-31 17:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Just relax, it'll come to you. If you tense when it starts getting to the point you will orgasm.
2006-08-31 17:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by dazed&confused 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always have an orgasm when my husband goes down on me. He uses his tougne and fingers. You might want your man to try this, it works for me. I orgasm about three to four times :) with this tecnique
2006-08-31 17:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by blu2u1982 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do orgasm every time with oral. I am bi, so I get that from both my hubby and our girlfriend. It's very important for the person who does it to you to know what she or he is doing...
2006-08-31 17:24:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the person isnt doing it right. Everytime I give oral sex to a woman she does have a orgasm. IF YOU WANT I AM WILLING TO TEACH YOU.
2006-08-31 17:22:33 · answer #9 · answered by the_saint1963 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u enjoy it? Relax a bit and tell the man how u like it and when it is feeling good.
2006-08-31 17:21:28 · answer #10 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My gf has the big O within 60 seconds !!!!
1. the guy has to know what he's doing
2. the girl just needs to relax and enjoy it
3. practice, practice, practice
2006-08-31 17:22:48 · answer #11 · answered by gozedown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋