ok, not trying to be racist or anything, but this is really a problem.
i'm puerto rican and i've been dating mostly spanish and black women in the past. love them and it's all good.
but i now go to a mostly white, big university and i wanted to go out with some white girls, because i think they are pretty too.
but what the hell is wrong with white girls, though?
they act so unapproachable. with black or spanish women, even though they are way more pickier about their guys, at least they will show the guy that they like some attention, so i always know if they are interested.
but the white girls just walk around like robots on campus. they don't look at any guy at all.
i asked this white guy what's up with that and he said that that's just how white girls are. he said they are very paranoid and easily creeped out.
this is so stupid to me, because i have a friend of mine who is truely creepy. he even smells bad at times, and he has white girls all the time. that's all he
2006-08-31
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dates. so how does he get them??
i've been to clubs, and there i see the white girls go all crazy and hang all over the black guys and stuff. so why do they act so uptight during the day?
it seems like they go from being asexual during the day to being slutty at night. i don't like that.
why do they have to go from one extreme to the other? why can't they be like black or spanish women who are always approachable, but never slutty?
2006-08-31
10:02:13 ·
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The creepy dude just got lucky! You are doin just fine with latinas and sistahs.....
2006-08-31 10:13:42
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answered by Stacye 1
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answered by riedel 4
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1) White chicks are really beautiful. There's no doubting that. Perhaps you are simply intimitated?
2) Be more observant: If you watch, they "hang" with tons of people at clubs - but they go home together. They may "appear" slutty, but its just a game - an innocent way for them to show their curves and feel free. Do some research: there is no mexican (woman) slave trade. There is no black (woman) slave trade. There IS a white woman slave trade. White female flesh is a hot commody all over the world. They have legitimate reason to be paranoid.
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2006-08-31 11:09:32
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answered by robabard 5
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Ever hear of a little thing called "cultural differences"? You have yours & it sound like it is too late to change your likes & dislikes of women. Maybe you are just the kind of man who should stick to your own race & leave the white girls alone, since they seem to scramble your brain in a negative way. White girls are just different & you don't have to background or skills to deal with them with it draining you of who you are. Maybe you could just find a computer program that could produce your perfect little white girl. A real man looks for a woman & leaves girls at home with their parents. Think about it.
2006-08-31 11:18:33
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answered by Anonymous
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Sorry to hear about your experience! Not all of us are like that, but there are some that give white girls a bad name. Its probably because they had stuck-up, snobbish, white moms that instilled this behavior into them. I personally am a big people person and I don't beleive in "not giving anyone the time of day". If someone talks to me, I'll talk back-even if it doesn't mean a date. People are people, you know, and nobody deserves a brush-off.
If I went to your school, I'd talk to you, hun!
2006-08-31 10:09:31
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answered by AlloAllo 4
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It's because of your university and the girls' background. If a white girl grew up in your neighborhood where you grew up in the past, they would act a lot like the spanish and black women you have dated in the past. It's where you grew up that decides your personality, not your race.
2006-08-31 10:09:04
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answered by Tim-Tim 2
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I'm not trying to be racist, but lots of white girls are decent and don't date outside of their race. Get some money, go downtown. There are white girls on the corners that date PRs and blacks.
2006-08-31 20:30:49
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answered by Anonymous
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You answered your own question when you said you attend a "mostly white, big university." The female students are likely not accustomed to seeing or dealing with people of color.
Secondly, are you really as open as you say or are you dating people solely based on their ethnic background. Are you stereotyping all of the white female students when you haven't gotten to know any of them?
It could also be the madonna/whore complex, which they have adopted. Good girl during the day, bad girl at night.
2006-08-31 11:00:42
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answered by Nefertiti 5
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~Look within. Maybe the problem isn't the "white girls". More likely it's you. I notice you date spanish and black 'women' but your problem is with white 'girls'. I suspect you telegraph your racism and condescending attitudes in other ways as well.
2006-08-31 11:02:32
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answered by Oscar Himpflewitz 7
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Well, where are you at? Because us white chicks up here in UPPER michigan are not like that at all.
It sounds like Upper Class Snobs to me. Try finding white girls somewhere else. But if you have better luck with other races, then just stick with them.
2006-08-31 10:06:31
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answered by Miz_Kassandra 4
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White girls that are in college are usually high on the self esteem scale. That means that they are not interested in dating outside their race. Black and hispanic men cannot understand successful black women wanting white men. It is a general thing and there are always exceptions bu mixed race is kind of like a cat wanting to date a dog. Find the FAT girls - the bigger the better - then you can maybe get a white date.
2006-08-31 10:05:19
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answered by Anonymous
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