I used to be a geek but somehow I became almost cool anyway Im used to girls not liking me thats no big deal but now lots of them like me even hot ones should i just have tons of girlfriends and say who cares if some feel hurt or tell lots of yumy girls Im too busy so I dont hurt them I mean girls often have tons of bf at the same time dont they? I lke your opinions thank you
2006-08-31 09:54:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
I think the best way to go is by living by the golden rule, "do unto others as you would have done unto you." If you're not looking for anything serious and just want to fool around, by all means date a lot of girls. But I do think that if you are going to do that you should be upfront with them and let them know that you are dating other people. Then at least they'll know what they are in for and there should be less feelings hurt that way. I am the kind of person that is very bad at dating more than one person at the same time so I always stick to just one and I expect to date people who are the same way. I would be very hurt if the guy I was seeing was seeing other people and never told me. And also don't expect the worst of all girls by thinking they all have a bunch of boyfriends, there are plenty of quality girls out there that only want one man. You just have to take the time to find the right one :) Good luck!
2006-08-31 10:06:09 · answer #1 · answered by Monika S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready to have a steady girlfriend then tell them. Just don't be cruel to them. It's okay to go out with different girls just as long as you tell them how you feel. If a girl knows how you feel, she'll understand.
Sometimes a girl will have lots of boyfriends and there are some who like just one boy. Some girls are flirts and some girls are true to the one they "love" at the moment. Every girl is different. Find out how they feel too. That is a big plus for you. That will make you much more attractive.
2006-08-31 17:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by greylady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi BB,
I think maybe somewhere in the middle may be the answer... once you meet someone with whom you can have a good time and have things in common. Go on a few dates and see where things lead. Sometimes dating a lot of people can turn into a nightmarish juggling act!
All the best.
2006-08-31 17:01:12 · answer #3 · answered by Bunny S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tons of girlfriends ...hmmmm....this makes you cool? How about tons of bacterial infections and venerial diseases or better yet HIV?
How about dating and look for a well respectable person that looks great and has her life together to build a healthy mature relationship with? If you keep throwing them back...eventually your going to age...and maybe you'll be the one thrown back and alone.
2006-08-31 17:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by Win 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that now u have built up alot of confidence in yourself, it is possible that u are also abit confused at the momment but also enjoy the female attention. But remeber someone will eventually get hurt be it u or one of them.So my opinon would be just be honest with the ladies but dont break to many hurts or your own!
2006-08-31 17:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by LOUISE S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as for going out with them all thats mean and can really hurt if they find out so dont do that and if you tell them your busy dont tell them that say you already have a girl friend.and dont be mean cuz if you were once a geek than you know how it feals
2006-08-31 17:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by james 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a nice guy. Tell the girls that you just want to be friends. some people don't like the word no, but you have to be honest.
Are you looking for a girlfriend or friendgirl?
2006-08-31 16:57:45 · answer #7 · answered by redirishactress 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly the fact you have no pic makes me think you're really a net worm with a bubble dick that bearly brakes the pubic canopy.
Secondly I believe you have sex with family members,
and thirdly, stop lobbing the custard from the spam saber and get outdoors you bullshitter!!
2006-08-31 16:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by bearerofknowledge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a question of morals. I am pretty, and could have a lot of boyfriends, but that is not the kind of person I am. I like one guy at a time, and to remain faithful to him.
2006-08-31 16:57:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being way too shallow. Quit thinking about how hot a girl is, and consider what is really important (the personality).
2006-08-31 16:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by giraffe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋