Just want opinions..?

Question

Cancer woman and Virgo man.. We have a great relationship, just want to see how many of these make it in the long run. Any weird habbits you see in your Virgo man?

Answer 1

Cancer with Virgo

In some ways this is an ideal combination, because earthy, orderly Virgo can offer containment and understanding while watery, affectionate Cancer can offer warmth and emotional nourishment. Both of you like security, and you may share a love of the past, and an orderly and beautiful domestic environment. Neither of you likes to take too many risks, emotionally or materially, and you are both compassionate people who may be tenderly caring of each other. Both of you have the qualities of a good caretaker, even if you lead a busy professional life.

You are more likely than many couples to make the effort to really understand each other. However, some problems may arise from Virgo's need for clearly defined boundaries and lots of privacy. But Cancer needs emotional closeness, and likes lots of sharing. Cancer's moodiness and indirectness can be irritating to Virgo's love of calmness and clarity, and Virgo's sometimes ferocious self-containment can be hurtful to Cancer's need for emotional intimacy.

But even with this area of potential conflict, both of you have a great willingness to understand how others feel and think. And that can create a strong and enduring bond.
You are a Cancer


Whether it's an old plastic bottle, an old lover, an old house, an old belief, an old memory, Cancer hangs on. One of your strongest urges is the urge for security, and security usually means clinging to the past. It's an emotional motivation, not a practical one. Beneath the Crab's tenacious penchant for not letting go of anything lies one of the most sensitive and vulnerable of all the zodiac signs. Moon-ruled, your apparently solid and conservative nature is perpetually washed by a cyclical ebb and flow of moods, desires, feelings, fantasies, dreams, fears and intuitions.

Yes, conservative. You Cancers know all about conservation. You'll carefully nurture and protect those tender feelings and creative imaginings beneath a bristling fortified wall of multiple bank accounts, share certificates, insurance policies, old photographs, family traditions, childhood friendships, and sometimes a super-rational attitude which appears to reject everything that lies on the invisible side of life.

Cancers are closet mystics, with poetry in their soul and the light of distant, dimly lit horizons in their eyes. Admittedly, not a lot of people may know that about you, and maybe you don't even know it about yourself. Except when the Moon changes phases and those secret dreams and imaginings rise up with the ebb and flow of the tide.

Yours is traditionally the sign of the family. That doesn't mean every Cancer wants, or should have, a family in the conventional sense. But a feeling of continuity with the past is terribly important for you. With roots firmly in the ground, you can indulge your wandering instinct, because there's something to come back to. And Crabs never move directly toward what they want. They circumambulate. "What, me? Interested in that? Don't be silly." But when you grab for the prize and those pincers close, you don't let go.

You dislike analysing motives, especially your own. You intuitively avoid possible rejection and humiliation - hence the often misread coolness which you present in situations where you feel vulnerable. But you're not cool, just intensely self-protective.

It's been said that Cancers are manipulative. This is absolutely true. You generally get what you want quietly and diplomatically, and half the time other people don't even realise you wanted it. Maybe sometimes you don't even realise yourself, until you've got there.

It's also been said about Cancer that the right hand often doesn't know what the left hand is doing. Of course you know, deep down. It's just that things are easier when they're dimly lit by the light of the Moon, not exposed for all to see in the harsh light of the noonday Sun.

Cancer is a water sign, with a gift for working subtly with feelings. Yes, you know how to use manipulation - atmospheres, hints, innuendoes, subtle ways of inducing guilt - to keep your loved ones close. The negative side of this is a propensity to employ emotional blackmail. But the positive side is a wonderful ability to guide and nurture without invasiveness. And behind even the most subtle of emotional ploys is your powerful need to be needed.

Your sensitivity, gentleness, shrewdness and delicacy can be beautifully expressed not only in the caring professions, but in business, family life, or a work of art. Although you need people, and need to be needed by them, you also long to retreat into solitude from time to time. It's those lunar phases again. Sometimes you simply have to withdraw in order to refresh your spirits and commune with those boundless imaginative depths. But you also need a lot of closeness and reassurance, and a cold atmosphere can be almost physically painful for you when you want to be close to someone.

Yours is a complex personality. You're instinctively secretive, yet always compassionate and responsive to others' unhappiness. You're capable of being snappish and irritable when the mood is on you, yet you're also able to brim over with joy, warmth, and sheer wild unbridled fun. Sometimes Cancers have to wait a long time before their real creative potential is realised. But the creative fruit you'll bring forth is worth waiting and working for.

Answer 2

I personally think this relationship will take a little work. I have 4 Cancer women in my family, so based on them...... I can honestly say.....Virgo men are very critical and often blunt. Cancer women don't take that very well, as they are very emotional. That makes Cancer very mad and then they cry over him (the Virgo) being so uncaring about her emotions. The one thing they do have in common is their loving ways and they're both worriers. Virgo sees Cancer as being too "crabby" though; although, they can be a bit fussy themselves....but they only have room for one fussy person. LOL
♥Beware: A Virgo man takes awhile before he will propose marriage, but once in love he will remain with you. After all, Cancer women are the best homemakers. I admire the 4 in my family for that!
♥Best of Luck to u 2!♥

Answer 3

Guess what I was with a virgo guy. Im a cancer girl. He said he would never brake up with me and he did not that i cared but we made such a cute couple. and we had goog compatibility but i guess it didnt work out. they say that cancer and virgo are a great match but i dont really now for sure. maybe well get back together.
he turned out to be an a whole and a liar but he was mine o well

Answer 4

I am a virgo woman with a cancer man. We have definetly had our share of ups and downs...even some separations early on. But always so outer force brought us back...14 years going strong.

Answer 5

I think people can feel free to have the opinion that they want. They should be able to express there opinion, and those who listen (which should be lots of people) should have an open mind, and maybe change there opinion. Some opinions may not turn into anything, but it doesnt mean there worthless. Even if nobody treasures your opinion, you should. Its what makes you who you are.

Answer 6

well im a virgo woman and the only habbits virgos have that r really noticeable is the fact we strive for perfection

Answer 7

I don't have a Virgo man...

Answer 8

ok

Answer 9

you really believe in that stuff.

Answer 10

Mine was an ******!!!