in love with. Do I tell him or do i just leave it alone?
2006-08-31 09:37:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Break the engagement. The only person you should be in love with is the man you're supposed to marry.
He deserves someone who will love him completely.
2006-08-31 09:49:22 · answer #1 · answered by Laquishacashaunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if you are still in love with your ex, why are you engaged to someone else??? You are being unfair to your fiance. And you don't say that you love your fiance, only that he's a wonderful guy. Do the right thing. End the engagement. He'll be hurt, but he'll get over you. Then he can find someone who will marry him because she's head over heels in love with him. As for contacting your ex, NO! At least not until AFTER you end your engagement. Otherwise, you're just asking for trouble! God bless!
2006-08-31 16:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by celticwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider this:
You and your ex are still dating (the one that you love). He proposes to you, but he's secretly in love with his ex girlfriend.
- How long do you think the marriage would last?
- When would you like to find out that your husband is not really in love with you, but is with someone else? After 5 years of marriage and 2 kids? Before the marriage? Never?
- Would you have married him if you know he was in love with another woman?
- Would you trust him to be around that woman alone?
- Do you think you would have found someone, eventually, that truly loved you?
2006-08-31 16:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by Cool-K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not fair to your fiance to be in love with someone else. You need to evaluate yourself. Why are you marrying your fiance? What do you love about him, your ex? Why do you love him? Hopefully you are not a woman who feels that she has to have a man to complete herself. You must love and accept yourself first, otherwise you definetely can't love someone else.
You need to let your fiance know how you feel about another person. You need to do the right thing. It does not appear that you are ready to get married
Also, Why did you break up with your ex?
Definitely figure out what you need to do and do it quick!!!!!
2006-08-31 18:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by DoUKnowJesus? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you marry someone else if you're still in love with your ex. I feel sorry for the guy who asked you to marry him
2006-08-31 16:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by mightymight 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are still in love with you ex, its a good chance that you will make your new guy miserable by always comparing him to your ex. maybe not verbally but, in your mind. You are not ready for any serious relationship, if you think you can dround out your old feelings by marring this guy you are badly mistaken. And women always ask why are guys jealous, because we know when things are not right. we were blessed with that gift, who do you think decieved man in the beginning, but yet we will kill for ya'll, and die for ya'll.
2006-08-31 16:56:25 · answer #6 · answered by lktt71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't approach your ex, whatever you do. It will only end up hurting or even destroying your relationship, and probably his as well. But... if you're in love with your ex, why are you engaged to somebody?
2006-08-31 16:41:39 · answer #7 · answered by CRtwenty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. If you realled loved your "wonderful guy" why are you worried about how your ex will react? It sounds like you are hoping your ex will declare his undying love for you and ask you to leave the "wonderful guy" and run away with him.
2006-08-31 16:41:31 · answer #8 · answered by lady01love 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say leave it alone. But the question is - will you be happy with your fiancee? You are comiting to spend the rest of your life with this person and you have to be sure that this is who you wanna be with. Good luck !
2006-08-31 16:45:30 · answer #9 · answered by evelyn55 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You break off the engagement or you are an evil person.
2006-08-31 16:40:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋