I want to heat things up with my spouse. I want it to be different but not smutty. Any suggestions on outfits and scenarios?
2006-08-31 09:33:02 · 15 answers · asked by wowcanusayit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
candles in the bedroom, soft music, massaging oil and you in a plaid skirt and white button-down.
2006-08-31 09:38:32 · answer #1 · answered by Robert A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do a romantic date night. Both of you get dressed up and go out on the town. Come back and do what you did when you first met.
Or, do a romantic evening at home with a nice meal, a nice bottle of wine, a candle lit bath, and you know what.
Sexy, but not smutty.
Or you can dress up like a French maid ;-).
2006-08-31 16:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by Cool-K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well once we got body paint and put a blacklight in the room.My husband drew designs all over my body and it feels good when its applied especially afterwards in the shower when your taking it off - plus we have also used some wings from a fairy outfits that i have and my husband took naughty pictures of me with just the me and the wings while acting like a porn photographer and saying touch yourself here and your the willing model.
2006-08-31 18:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by Bel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PASSION IS EVERYTHING....TALKING ABOUT WHAT THE 2 OF YOU WANT OUT OF THE EXPERIENCE OR LETTING THINGS FLOW....I HAVE FOUND THAT THE MOST PASSIONATE AND EROTIC TIMES I HAVE HAD WITHMY PARTNER WE HAVEN'T HAD SEX RIGHT AWAY...ONE TIME WE TOOK A 2 HOUR SHOWER AND IT WAS MORE EROTIC THAN ANY SEX THAT WE HAD EVER HAD.....I WILL TELL YOU THIS, THE SEX THAT WE DID HAVE AFTER THAT THOUGH.....OHYEAH, IT WAS GREAT. BUT SERIOUSLY TALK ABOUT THINGS GET INTO SOME LITERATURE ON HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR SEX LIFE....DON'T DO THE SMUTTY OUTFITS AND ACT OUT PORN, IT NEVER WORKS AND IT USUALLY LEAVES ONE OF YOU FEELING VERY INSUFFICIENT, MY ADVICE IS DEFFINITELY THE LITERATURE.
2006-08-31 16:43:09 · answer #4 · answered by radioradioradio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to buy things? Go for a walk with your loved one at night and find a tree and make love under it and hope you don't get caught!
2006-08-31 17:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by ray4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seduce him all day long.
no that doesn't mean stay in bed with him all day, just call him at work, tell him how much you want to make love to him when he gets home, tell him everything you want to do to him and him to do to you.
leave him a note in the morning telling him how you are going to rock his world that night.
always remember seduce the mind and the body will follow.
2006-08-31 17:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by jude D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure if there are kids, if so get a sitter, then get a nice black or red dress, nice matching heels, thigh highs...bra and panties/thong your call. go out for dinner...go out to a hotel....but make it seem like your strangers meeting at the bar, flirt with him...do dinnner...then go to the hotel...and get the groove going :)
2006-08-31 17:20:09 · answer #7 · answered by opyankees_06 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you said your husband. that's the only way i can give advices. as i don't believe in sexual relationship between boy/girlfriend.
first your body has to be smell like soap, with nice feminism smell. lip stick with sweet taste. when wearing cloth make it white or some soft color, light color. while he sets, grab your body and set on his hips, let him feel ur butt on his hips. then sleep on your stomach over his hips and ask him to massage your butt.
OK i guess ur man will go crazy. i am a dude
2006-08-31 16:43:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a bath together.
Fill it with smelly good bubbles
Have him lie back on you and give him a shoulder and chest message. Kiss him on either side of his neck and you can take it from there...
It drives my man crazy...
Have fun...
2006-08-31 16:44:26 · answer #9 · answered by daack7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play escaped convict and wardens wife! You just pretend to go to bed and have your husband be the convict!
2006-08-31 16:38:57 · answer #10 · answered by scott a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋