ok i moved in with my ex's family to be with him.. he dumped me and left to fl. his family grew to love me and keep me as there own and i love them. i am 18 soon 19 i can support myself and am very capiable of moving out...now ill copy and paste the story agian please understand its NOT about sex at all.
okay heres the story.
i moved in with my exes family awhile ago and lets just ay he ****** me over really bad. but i made a connection with donovon(his cuz) mentally and emotionally. i really care about him and want to be with him more then anything but i dont want to hurt my family. all we talk about is how it would be nice to be able to merely hold hands together to be to gether nothing sexual or anything. but my mom forbids it b/c she thinks it will tear apart the family. i dont no what do do because i no if i stay here and cant be with him it will kill me inside but everyone else will be happy.. i no if i leave it will hurt everyone and i no if he leaves are family will have to move. i hate the whole inside my stomac but i do love him i wont tell him that but i also no he loves me.. we dont want to hurt anyone but we just dont no what to do..were not blood at all just to clarifiy
2006-08-31 09:30:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
They will either accept your new relationship and understand or you two will have to move and they will work it out. Why should you two be unhappy. Talk to the Mom and Dad first and let them know what is going on. If they love you they will be happy for you. I am sure they know how badly your ex treated you. Be happy love is great!
2006-08-31 09:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by Sandra W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you can support yourself? Do so... it will be a lot easier to maintain relations with these people when you're not living with them. Personally I'd avoid making a decision on this guy for a bit until you have time to think about it a bit more. But if you really want to pursue him then do so. Better to give it a try then to regret that you didn't for the rest of your life, regardless of the consquences.
2006-08-31 09:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by CRtwenty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the cousin took advantage of you when you were at your most venerable. I would suggest you move on with your life and learn to support yourself for a while. If he is the one, then he will understand and be supportive. You didn't say how old Donovan is. If he is much older I go witht the taking advantage when you were vunerable.
Are you asking because you will take some action or are you looking for somene to agree with your view so it makes it feel right or better?
2006-08-31 09:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by marc k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess there's two options here. You can hurt the family, your ex, and the cuz's family. Assumimg there might be drama. Or you can be with this guy, who know's if it will work, and move on with your life. So it really comes down to you. Decsions are hard to make. So good luck.
2006-08-31 09:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by Susa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta do what you want to do not what others say you should do,you only have one life so live it and live it to the max,sure people will get upset and not agree with you's both but it's your lives you gotta choose what makes you happy not anyone else..life is hard dont i know it so dont stay to please other's think of you two only and your hapiness..
2006-08-31 09:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow mabye u would get more answers if u shortined it up a bit about ur problem well i think holding hands is ok but u said , "its not sexual or anything" way to many times so it obviously is sexual so just let it go and find somone else jeeeez!!!!!
2006-08-31 09:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by purplechick888 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move out and get on with your life,there are other families out there besides his!
2006-08-31 09:47:35 · answer #7 · answered by kathy o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it is... move on... the longer you linger, the worst it will hurt when you finally do move on...
2006-08-31 09:44:56 · answer #8 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out and get on with yoour life
2006-08-31 09:33:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let it be babe. Don't destroy a family, just let it go. Good luck baby.
2006-08-31 09:37:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋