Women C'mon you look too!?

Question

I've only been on this (answers) sight a few weeks ,but I've already read a dozen or more questions relating to their man looking at a woman. Are you going to tell me that women look away or close their eyes if a nice looking guy walks by. I know my woman looks and she even makes comments once in a while(nice arms etc.) SO WHAT.The ironic thing is she will turn around and give me $hit for looking even if I dont say a word. Women look too! admit it. And that being said why are they so offended if their man simply looks,B.F.D.

Answer 1

Of course married women look. Any woman who claims she doesn't is either lying to herself or to you. Get a bunch of women around the water cooler and ask them, "Who's cuter? George Clooney or Brad Pitt?" and watch the comments start flying.

Yeah, right, "married women don't look"...

I look and appreciate a good specimen of the opposite sex. So does he. Doesn't mean that we want to leave each other, doesn't mean we're going to drop each other for the next cute person that walks by, doesn't mean we're sitting there going, "Damn, what am I doing with THIS person when I could be with THAT person"...

Edited to add - The answer below this one reminded me of one of DH's sayings: "Just because I'm on a diet doesn't mean that I can't look at the menu."

Answer 2

I don't think women are upset about guys simply "looking", but lets face it, some guys are so very obvious about it, it crosses into disrespect. I've seen guys stop in mid-sentence to gawk at a woman who walks by. I think, this is what most people would have a problem with. I'm sure women look, too, but I've never had a female friend interrupt our conversation for that reason.

Don't get me wrong, there are control freaks among both men AND women, who like to pretend that no one else should exist for their parter, and have a fit when reality hits. I think, however, that most reasonable people would agree that it's ok to glance, but it's somewhat disrespectful to gawk.

Answer 3

Unless the "Rock" walked past me, I wouldn't even notice a guy. Women seem to look at men differently than men. Most men I've talked to, when they look at a women. it's more than a glance, it's an ogle. They also secret think about what it would be like to be with them.
I've found women mostly admire men's physique. not think about what they'd be like in the sack. This isn't the rule. One size does not fit all. I have found men that look at women purely out of admiration, and women that do fantasies about what a roll in the hay with them would be like.
I don't know the statistic for sale between Playboys and Playgirls. I'll bet the Playboys sell a lot more. Most women are not turned on by pictures of naked men, male strippers etc. Some men that are happily married can be turned on and seduced by a beautiful woman. Just because of the way she looks. Women like their minds made love to. So be wary of the smooth talkers stealing your woman.
My point is women tend to be more insecure. They feel it doesn't take much for a man to upgrade. Some one younger, prettier, thinner, etc.
Sometimes women mistake the look you are giving the other woman, as a look that you would give them. I look of wanting. Pathetic but true.

Answer 4

Not all women are offended. Only the insecure ones. There is nothing wrong with appreciating a nice view. My husband and I both look, and neither one of us cares. It's not like we are going to leave each other because we saw someone better looking! I would take it as a serious red flag if someone I was with threw a fit because I looked at another attractive person. Someone that insecure is going to have other issues I would not want to deal with.

Answer 5

There is nothing wrong with looking with respect I don't want my man oogeling and I don't drool either I can appreciate a Good looking man or woman! I look and so does my bf. We both have enough self confidence and trust in each other that we do it tastefully and don't wig out about it. Look are not that important in a relationship, when your old and your looks have faded all you have is your love and your sense of humor and personality.
lol

Answer 6

As rare as it is to actually come across a good looking guy theses days... if I happen to, I do look away. What is the point? A guy's excuse would be to appreciate the beauty of what is before him.. but why would I care about some random beauty that means nothing to me, if I already have everything I could ever want in my marriage? Plus staring is such a no no!!!

Answer 7

Hell yes I look....at men AND at women. I even notice women for my husband to look at. I will say "Hey, Baby...she's got a nice @ss" or something to that effect.....I don't know why women get so uptight about it. Sure, if you are drooling, the I might get a little upset, but just "appreciating" someone else's looks is human nature.

Answer 8

Yes indeed women look too. I don't get offended when my husband looks at other women. I know it's natural for both men as well as women to be attracted to other people. We both know that it means absolutely nothing so it's not a problem.

Answer 9

Get this. I was once walking with my girlfriend and a buddy of mine. A nice looking woman with a short skirt walked by and I turned my head quickly to check her out. My buddy asked my girlfriend if she took offence to what I had done and her response was "I'd find it strange if he didn't take a look". Isn't she great? We all laughed.

Answer 10

I look, and I'm not offended if my fiance looks. It's not like he's going to see a cute chick and leave me!

I've never understood why people get jealous over something so small and irrelevant.