When I was like, 4 or 5 at my school this boy and I were playing doctor and then he fingered me and I didn't know that was wrong so I didn't say stop or tell. But now I'm 11 and I still finger myself and I wanna know how to stop this bad habit.
2006-08-31 09:19:00 · 10 answers · asked by blackgurl52@yahoo.com 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I try to stop and when I think I've broke it I do it again. plz help!
2006-08-31 09:24:39 · update #1
I know it's really bad and I really wanna stop.
2006-08-31 09:28:08 · update #2
no it is natural 4 ne 1 from 10 2 about 14 or 15 ur just going through puberty its all normal so don't worry about it but if u want to stop find something to keep u busy it will help i promise!
2006-08-31 09:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by drummer9206 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not a bad habit really, only due to your age. You just shouldn't be doing it yet and your experience with a boy that young has got you started too early. If it really bothers you and you feel you need to stop, then tell your mom you started before you knew it was wrong and kept doing it cuz of how good it felt, then ask your mom how to stop. If you tell your mom you want to stop, I doubt you'll get in trouble for it. I'm sure she will be glad to help.
2006-08-31 10:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by flashpro 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That was a good question because I had the same thing to happen to me and now I'm grown and still do it but there is nothing wrong with it. It is natural and better than having actual sex at your age. Make sure you stay clean and wash your hands regularly. If it is still bothering you than find something else to occupy your time like reading or washing dishes or playing on the computer.
2006-08-31 10:16:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find something more constructve for your mind and hands.
I regret that this happened to you. You have the power to control your actions. You know something is wrong by being consumed with this stimulation. You know that you are bigger than this.
BE BIGGER THAN THIS!!!
Idle hands and mind are the workshop of the devil. Do not waste your valuable time with an activity that may feel good for a few seconds while doing it, but lower your self esteem for a longer time and distort your view of yourself and your body.
I hope this helps and you heed this counsel. Learn patience, practice patience. You have a whole life ahead of you. Focus yourself on the great contributions that you have for all of us in the future. We need you to get yourself together.
2006-08-31 09:33:59 · answer #4 · answered by LeBlanc 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
hmm... the best is that u have to control urself. resist that, how muchever it makes u feel good! have promises against that and try to win those challenges.
like, if u dont finger, then the exam u gave will fetch u good marks. like that!!
2006-09-01 01:04:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow im srry but that is a bit gross mabye u still um "finger yourself" because ur conce is bugging u mabye telling an adult will help clear it and help u break ur umm "interesting" habit
2006-08-31 09:26:40 · answer #6 · answered by purplechick888 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Im a guy and i heir from all my chick friends that they all do it to so dont be ashamed. and if this dosent help, ill give you my future wifes e-mail.
2006-08-31 09:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by live_n_death 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
4 OR 5 YEARS OLD?! ARE YOU CRAZY. i know you didnt know, but thats just wrong. just stop getting horny and you dont finger yourself. just stop. easy as that.
2006-08-31 09:24:40 · answer #8 · answered by yourrad_letsmakeout♥ 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
just dont do it anymore find other ways to occupy your time
2006-08-31 09:23:16 · answer #9 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
CRAZY KIDS! too young
2006-08-31 09:31:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋