Libra woman & Cancer man?

Question

are we a good match???

Answer 1

I'm a Libra on the Scorpio cusp and my boyfriend is a Cancer. We get along great. Although, my ex was also a Cancer but we were together for five years and we still remain close friends. I think it's a good match, for what it's worth.

Answer 2

The cancer won't continue to fight for someone that she believes doesn't want her back just as much. The Cap will quickly realize this about her. Cancers are big on individual recognition while the Libra likes to flirt and have admirers in general. The Libra will compete when necessary and work on some other options on the side. However, if he is a conniving Cap, he will keep the Libra (selfless sign) by creating a responsibility of partnership (pregnancy, a rental, social friends/fanbase, or something with needed payments/duties) and manipulate the Cancer (sentimental) with gifts/emotional ties. Both will lose if a female Virgo enters the picture though. If she likes him, she's not going away from a Cap. With a cap, it can simply be, "who stays." Basically, he has to want to make the decision or he will just use the situation. Capricorn motto "I use."

Answer 3

When Cancer and Libra make a love match, they give to one another important things that each lacks. Both Signs seek a secure, assured relationship and will enjoy their shared appreciation for beauty and luxury -- especially when it comes to their domestic environment. These two can blend their energies harmoniously if they choose to work toward a common goal. Though this pairing may progress more slowly than some others, and at first they may fear that they have little else in common than their mutual needs for companionship and love of beauty. However, the more they get to know one another, the better each individual in this Cancer-Libra love match will recognize and respect positive qualities in the other. Neither Cancer nor Libra shy away from combining the powers of their emotion and their intellect, and both enjoy the occasional teary opera or sentimental heirloom. Expression of sentiment and happiness are important to both Signs, and Cancer and Libra can complement one another in many ways. Cancer appreciates Libra's charm and tact, and Libra's calm, cool diplomacy skills can tame even the wildest pouting fit a Cancer can muster up. Also, Libra, lover of aesthetic beauty and harmony, will appreciate their Cancer mate's nurturing instinct for a comfortable home and the security that comes with it. Libra can offer the sometimes emotionally impetuous Cancer some perspective on situations. Cancer needs to see the different sides of an issue, or this Crab may be prone to making decisions without knowing all the facts. Conversely, Cancer can help Libra cure their notorious indecision. The Moon (Emotion) rules Cancer, and the Planet Venus (Love) rules Libra. These planetary partners share a love of home, family and romance. While Libra is known for its balancing nature (the Balance is Libra's symbol, after all!), these love partners share nurturing personalities and desire harmony over conflict. More than any other match-up of Signs, this astrological pair brings a warmth and sense of stability to those around them. Despite all the harmony and homey happiness, though, Librans, whose life approach is based on intellect, can be a bit snobbish and superior, and Cancer, who looks at life through emotional lenses, still has those easily bruised feelings to contend with. Cancer is a Water Sign, and Libra is an Air Sign. Libra sees life as a pure mental exploration, while Cancer's experience is more tactile, more kinesthetic. Cancer is most satisfied when their emotional needs are met, while Libra simply focuses on what stimulates their mind. At times, these lovers may find it difficult to understand one another. Conflicts can arise in this relationship if Cancer seems too crabby or Libra seems too provocative. Both need to learn that they simply view the world in different ways. Cancer and Libra are both Cardinal Signs. In this relationship, there could be struggles over who wears the pants, who's at the steering wheel, who's really in control here. If Libra's indecision irritates Cancer, Libra can turn on their subtle charm and sense of fairness and go along with Cancer's decision -- as long as Cancer doesn't get Crabby! Both are initiators, which can, when their ideas and approaches differ, be quite a struggle. What's the best thing about the Cancer-Libra love match? Their mutual appreciation of stability and domestic balance. Aesthetics matter to them, and they share a love of the comforts in life. Their similar tastes and loves make theirs a relationship of great dedication and harmony.

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 4

I am a Libra, and my daughter is a Cancer. She can have her mood swings, but I have learned just to let her go, and she'll come around in time. We can have fun conversations, and I love the Cancers sense of humor. They can have a very magnetic personality, but then they will crawl into that shell, and stay for a while, and I respect that!

Answer 5

Horoscopes have little effect on hormones. Get the horoscope columns from 3 different newspapers for the same date and compare the "predictions" for your sign. Then go online and do the same. If you check 16 different sources you will get 16 different "predictions."
Have fun.
Isabel Allende tells the story of when she started as a magazine journalist and there was a mail strike; they called the "astrologist" asking what they could do without that week's predictions? She said (and I quote): "Just take one from last year and mix them all up."
Date someone you like, not someone you think has "compatible" stars.

Answer 6

Do a compatibility chart since other planets may indicate compatibility, such as the Moon and Venus.

I tend to not get along with water signs because they are just too emotional. Cancers and I tend to repel each other immediately.

Answer 7

You probably are if you love him. I'm a Libra too and I have cancer friends.

Answer 8

A love match between a Cancer and a Libra is unlikely. Cancer
is cardinal water and Libra is cardinal air. In astrology these two
signs form a natural square, signaling conflict and challenges.
There can be an instant attraction between these two signs, but
its not always a good thing. It is almost as if they sense each
other below the skin, striking right at each others nerves. This
can lend great passion between them but both are too nervous in
their own ways to want a lasting relationship between them.
With the Cancers need for comfort, the tension between them
will wear them down and depress their spirits, lending towards
extreme emotional reactions. With a Libra, their need for
harmony and optimism will be oppressed around the Cancer and
send their stress levels soaring. Other factors in the individuals
charts interaction will need to be strong to lend positivity to the
tense between them.

You do have things in common, but they do not outweigh your differences. This one takes a lot of work to work. Both of you are seekers after peace in your lives and relationships. Neither of you enjoy conflict and are generally friendly, easy going types. Now for the differences. Cancer is sensitive, moody and emotional, loves the past and the status quo. . . prefers the familiar to the untested, is clannish and a nitpicker. The Cancer lifestyle is comfortable rather than stylish. Cancer relies on feelings and intuition to make decisions. These traits are in direct conflict with the Libra rational approach to life.

Libra is objective, reasonable, fair and usually detached. Decisions are weighed and countered before being made, and are always rational. Libra loves style, grace, and is very aware of the importance of a good image. Libra has a good sense of aesthetics and loves a home that makes a statement. Libra is usually concerned with what people think. Libra likes the new and trendy. Libra prefers to be in a relationship than to going it alone. This could work if Cancer gives Libra space and Libra allows Cancer its relaxed lifestyle.

Libra is a person well versed in the desires of the opposite sex and knows exactly what his/her partner wants at any given time. Making a relationship work is the thing that makes libra happiest but Libra needs broader horizons than just a domestic situation and the Cancer man or woman who thinks they can settle this one down may be in for a surprise. Of course, Libra can appreciate the domestic scene and even learn to enjoy it, if it is not pushed on him/her.

Cancer will have to enlarge his/her knowledge base and conversational skills, as it takes intellectual stimulation to keep Libra from being bored and restless. If Cancer continues to play the role of the quiet sulking martyr then he/she will not last long in Libras affections. If Cancer will relax and enjoy life more, Libra would learn to like the devotion Cancer showers on him/her.

Cancer will have to project some excitement and glamour into the bedroom and their love making if he/she would capture and hold Libras attention, as he/she has a roving eye and will always be looking for greener pastures, sex being the important part of life to him/her that it is.

Cancers preference for the loving approach, filled with romance, is simply not stimulating to Libra; his/her stimulating thoughts of various sexual perversions makes Cancer feel revolted and slightly dirty. This is not a match made in Heaven.

As Sun Signs go… you and your lover share what's traditionally called a Challenging Element.

What this typically means is that the two of you may be very different and at cross purposes in your individual styles of thinking, communicating, and relating.

The bond of love shared between two lovers is, of course, a given. That bond will naturally help toward smoothing out many of the rough spots encountered in your relationship. However, at times, the two of you may have to be prepared to put out extra effort in working toward truly understanding one another and developing mutual appreciation of the other person's differences.

Answer 9

An EXCELLENT book to answer that question is "sexual astrology" by Maxine. It's not just about sex, either. It talks about personality and sexuality traits, favorite techniques -- sexual and non, and lots of other fun stuff. Check it out at barnes and noble.

Answer 10

Yes, you to are. But just as long as you fill each other in like give each other what you most desparately want.