I read this daft equation in a recent magazine. Surely a sign of true love is helping the beloved improve? If I didn't care about someone I wouldn't even bother suggesting to him or her where they were letting themself down. Love works towards the betterment of the other and nobody's perfect! If my lover was a compulsive liar I'd have to at least try to direct him away from that vice and get him to change. Or if he was a tortoise, I was a hare and this caused problems, surely the loving thing would be for both of us to work at compromise in practical areas - not trying to change personality, but tweaking it to the extent possible.
2006-08-31 09:06:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When love is true people change without having to be asked to do it. it just happens because suddenly both people realise that what they want most is for the other to be happy. Two people can not come together in this way without both changing, for the better.
You can not *make* somebody change, people only do that when they want to, or when they are able to.
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2006-08-31 09:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think love changes people for the good or the bad. It all depends on who you are with. If change doesn't come easy than the person isn't for you, thats what Im finally starting to comprehend.
2006-08-31 16:48:37 · answer #2 · answered by Kit Katt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UPS I'm in a one way street here.I've been married for 3 year's and only found out it's not recognised,I feel so let down.Unconditional Love,what's that supposed to be or mean.
2006-09-04 15:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by mariolla oneill 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make people change, unconditional love is loving them with all there warts and all,
2006-08-31 16:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its loving someone foe who they r. and still loving them if they do something that really annoys you xxx
2006-08-31 16:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋