He is going to be turning 21 and I'm going to be 20.
2006-08-31 09:02:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are still pretty young.. But thinking about marriage now is completely normal. How about a long engagement? Best wishes.
2006-08-31 09:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
easily, I say its to quickly which you will marry. I dated my fiance for 2 and a million/2 years and have been getting married in a twelve months. I only don't think in human beings getting married so quickly. there are maximum of questions you're able to desire to ask your self in the previous getting married. Getting married and making plans a marriage is one element. don't get so centred on only making plans a marriage. What approximately your life with your destiny substantial different? it is a few thing you're able to be discussing in the previous marriage. have you ever and your fiance asked one yet another questions those... a million. Who pays for the expenses? 2. What are expectancies approximately circumstances the place considered one of you're able to desire to be on my own with somebody of the choice intercourse? 3. How are projects shared interior the abode: cleansing, cooking, washing dishes, backyard artwork, vehicle maintenance, maintenance, procuring for nutrition, and enjoyed ones stuff? 3. Who does the checkbook—or are there 2? 4. If and while, could we've babies? Why? 5. what share? How some distance aside? 6. might we evaluate adoption? 7. What are the suitable the thank you to self-discipline them? what share strikes in the previous they’re...notwithstanding? 8. What approximately college? abode college? Christian college? Public college? 9. Do desire to possess a house or not? Why? 10. what sort of community shall we live? Why? 11. what share automobiles? New? Used? 12. View of money customarily. How lots to the church? 13. How do you're making money judgements? 14. how lots money could we spend on entertainment? 15. How frequently could we consume out? the place? sixteen. what sort of holidays are suitable and valuable for us? 17. Who could advance a controversy it is bothersome? 18. who's the significant breadwinner? 19. could the spouse artwork outdoors the abode? in the previous little ones? With little ones at abode? After little ones? 20. What determines the place you will detect? interest? Whose interest? Church? kinfolk? in the previous you get married, take a seat and communicate on your boyfriend. How do you rather be responsive to that he's the single? you're interior the start ranges of your relationship. issues can substitute in a twelve months, 2 years or 3. i'm hoping you be responsive to what your doing and that i'm hoping you're picking to do the suited element. i in my view think of that 2 human beings could marry in the event that they have dated longer than a twelve months.
2016-10-01 03:36:53 · answer #2 · answered by riedel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With so little to go on, it's hard to say. You were both very young when you began dating, so neither of you have had much time to be in other relationships. I have seen marriages between people in your situation work, while others fail. You and your boyfriend need to have some serious discussions about the future. Do you love each other enough to make the commitments that marriage requires? Can you say, with as much certainty as anyone can, that you want to spend the rest of your lives together? Can you promise to love each other forever? Stay faithful to each other ... forever? Stay together through good times and bad? In sickness and health? For richer or poorer? Are you both willing to do the every day work involved in making a marriage work? Remember, falling in love is the easy part. Staying in love takes the work of both partners. Only you and he can answer these questions. Pray to God that He will guide both of you. Listen for His answers. Ask Him if he's the right man for you. God bless!
2006-08-31 09:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by celticwoman777 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
20 and 21 are too young.
Better to be at 26 and 27
2006-08-31 16:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Holy cow! Break up already. Go to college and get a life. At 20 and 21 you think you're all grown up, but you are still babies and should never have been in a relationship that long that young in the first place.
2006-08-31 11:49:42 · answer #5 · answered by OU812 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I married at 20 and we were together for 3 years when we did it.
2006-08-31 09:10:13 · answer #6 · answered by **What??** 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wait another 3 or 4 years or so. Don't get married too young unless you both feel that way
2006-08-31 09:06:09 · answer #7 · answered by dchihouse 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Far too soon. I guess it would be different if you were both a bit older. Of course, I'm only speaking from hindsight and experience
and every-ones relationships differ.
If I were you, I'd hold out until you are 24 - see how you both feel then.
2006-08-31 09:11:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
wow 3 years? i knew my husband 3 months and then we started talking about marriage. we would of goten married then but no money. so we waited.
at your time its normal. go for it if you two love eachother.
2006-08-31 09:50:58 · answer #9 · answered by All4Christ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not too soon if both of you feel good about this decision. Otherwise, better to wait.
2006-08-31 09:22:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋