my bf wants me to sleep over so we can get drunk and he wont drive wen hes drunk so i gota sleep over but my dad and mom would never let me but i can lie and say im going to my friends cousins house and most likely he'll believe it but like im kinda scared i mean i know he isnt gonna find out but i need sum opinions!.... please help
2006-08-31 09:01:52 · 29 answers · asked by Reefer Goddess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we have talked about sex but we decided to wait until i was ready and i told him im only smoking and im not drinking and he was like alright thats fine so idk ...
2006-08-31 09:26:16 · update #1
don't lie to your parents talk with your mum she can advise you that's if shes a mum like me my 16 yr old daughter she tels me everything
2006-08-31 09:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by angel 36 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants you to do that, then I dont think you should be with him. Im sorry, but you are too young to take on the responsibilities of the actions you could take. Just stay home, invite a friend to come over and watch movies all night, and be happy that you made the wisest and most grown up choice youve probably had to make so far.
2006-08-31 09:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by Jess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he will get drunk and sleep- Do you want to have sex with him because this is what he is setting up. Don't lie. If you are too young to drink, don't drink. This has disaster written all over it.
2006-08-31 09:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're obviously too young to be drinking so, lets look at everything that can go wrong here... you get wasted, you are sleeping with your bf you get stupd-style drunk, you have sex... you end up pregnant. Yea, sounds like a good time. Personally, I suggest you not do it.
2006-08-31 09:04:55 · answer #4 · answered by Uncle Tim 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're still living at home, then stay home. Dad's only looking out for your best interests. Besides, if dad's gonna find out sooner or later, then you're sure to get grounded or whatever he does. Plus he'll know that you can't be trusted.
2006-08-31 09:05:56 · answer #5 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd lie and go get drunk. Yeah, it's not the most responsible choice. But it sure is a hell of a lot of fun!
2006-08-31 09:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by ☆skyblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...I vote no. Y? because clearly you're still answering to mommy and daddy, which means that you're probably too young to be messin' with stuff like this. Just chill, wait for now...If he's a decent guy, he'll understand...
He probably won't tho.
2006-08-31 09:06:21 · answer #7 · answered by shades2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh if your parents won't let you, you're probably not old enough to drink. Wait until you're out of high school at least. Seriously, you get to drink for the rest of your life
2006-08-31 09:10:35 · answer #8 · answered by oh really 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh the excitement of being a teenager. Just do it, then when you go home the next day, it's so fun knowing that you did all that sh*t and your parents don't even know. Make sure your friend knows you're lying about her tho, and just have fun!
2006-08-31 09:05:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants to get laid. You could stay over, sleep with him while you're drunk off you ***, and take a chance. Sleep over, not sleep with him, or not stay over at all. Good Luck!
2006-08-31 09:04:34 · answer #10 · answered by dchihouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't "Gotta" sleep over. You tell your boyfriend that you can't because there are rules that you are required to follow. If he wants to drink so badly, then tell him to do it alone.
I know that sounds stupid and I'm sure the peer pressure is killing you but 'obey thy father and thy mother', ya know?
Lying gets you no where and yes, he will find out.
2006-08-31 09:05:51 · answer #11 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋