My hubby woke me up and wanted a quicky and then after 20 min. and 5 diff. positions he decides he can't finish. What's up with that? Maybe he's cheating? This has only happend twice in 14 yrs. but it does concern me.
2006-08-31 08:47:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Normal. He's aging. He's out of shape and needs to cut back on his cheese burgers and caffeinated drinks. He's taking medicine that interferes with circulation. He's masturbating too much and needs to save himself for sex with you. He's got diabetes. He needs to see a doctor. Any and all of the above and more.
2006-08-31 11:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by OU812 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there am there.
Anxiety, "trying to hard to finish so we can get to work", medication (paxil and others)...
..stress at work, frequent masturbation, oooh, leg cramps get me on occassion.....i really hate those as i'm tensing up near the precipice.
Its not u, its him. Be supportive. My wife will often go down or use a bit o hand cream to help me finish...takes off some of the pressure.
Good luck doll
2006-08-31 09:34:38 · answer #2 · answered by scott_v1963 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing more then,, the mind said yes and the body said no.. Dont worry sweetheart, you know he must have been thinking about you to want it.. Believe me love its happend to me once or twice before..Your friend from Tennessee...ROB
2006-08-31 08:59:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it.. it doesn't mean that he is cheating. sometimes guys just don't 'finish'. i have had this happen to me a few times. i still was completely satisfied by the encounter. actually i felt bad a bit. like i didn't meet her needs because i never 'finished'. trust me.. it likely has nothing to do with his attraction to you.
2006-08-31 08:57:02 · answer #4 · answered by martiniac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever if my husband wakes me up he WILL finish, if not my me p**sy I would go downon him. And WHAT??, maybe he's cheating, yeah right!! He just had some problems that night.
2006-08-31 08:52:06 · answer #5 · answered by **What??** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you start to talk about something else than what you were doing, because that will wreck the mood
2006-08-31 09:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by scott a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, it can happen to any man... Especially as they age. I hope you didn't make a big deal out of it.
2006-08-31 09:01:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
was this in the morning......because when I have morning sex I can go like a porn star, for some reason Its just like that
2006-08-31 08:51:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did it go limp or he just couldnt finish is he on any meds need more info
2006-08-31 09:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by canibus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's got something on his mind.... it's ur job 2 figure out what that something is!!!
2006-08-31 09:06:44 · answer #10 · answered by Julie G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋