He won't do the dishes when he gets home from work anymore he says he is too tired, he only works 14 hours a day? I don't think this is going to work out! He don't even give me money for the mall anymore!!
2006-08-31 08:47:54 · 27 answers · asked by Alone again 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get a haircut and a job!
2006-08-31 09:32:32 · answer #1 · answered by lolitakali 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a joke? You sound like a 10-year-old.
So what do you do all day? If you are chasing kids and/or working, then he needs to do some household chores, tired or not. Have him fold towels or watch his child so you can go to the store alone.
If you are not working, shame on you! Get off your dead butt and make your own mall money. Be grateful you have a husband who can work his tail off to support you. He might get hit by a bus or fall off a roof and then---you'll have to be a responsible adult instead of playing Barbie with a life-size Ken.
Marriage is a TEAM. It is not about you having help or mall money. It's not about your husband busting his butt and not getting any relief. It is about Both of you working together to make your life better. It is YOU giving him 110% and him giving you 110%. Sounds like he is giving his 110% and he has a spoiled baby to be his partner.
If anyone should get divorced it should be HIM! He would be WAY better off.
You could always go back home to momma.
You might try getting your GED since you obviously can't write English well.
2006-08-31 16:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 hrs work is very tiring. Even 8 hrs is tiring. You are expecting too much. You don't deserve to go to the mall if you refuse to do the dishes.
2006-08-31 23:52:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to read some of the other questions that are asked around here and not think of yourself all the time. There are plenty of other women who ask the same question that you did except maybe their husbands hit them, abuse them, cheat on them, or just treat them like crap. All you are worried about is what do you NOT have to do in this marriage. At least he has a job and is trying to take care of you in the right way. If that is all you want out of a marriage then you DO NOT NEED TO BE MARRIED. In that case, divorce him and let some other women find him that will really appreciate him like he seems to deserve.
2006-08-31 16:10:28 · answer #4 · answered by harleyweightintx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mall is closed...go to bed! When you get up in the morning to iron his shirt and fix his breakfast, then get off your south end and get going on cleaning out your closet and then clean out the rest of your no doubt emaculate hovel and have a yard sale and sell all the credit card crapola that you already have purchased AT THE MALL and then take the proffit from this high end extravaganza and GET your "shirt' together..save your own money and let that be the begining of a mature budget...or..else..
"You're gonna lose that boy..
Oh yes, you're gonna lose that boy"...the Beatles
2006-08-31 23:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by John L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He works 14 hours a day, that mean he has 2 hours to do whatever and 8 hours to sleep and you have 24 hours to do whatever...........why in the Heck should he be doing dishes?
2006-08-31 16:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry how spoiled/immature can you be? When you are working 14 hours a day bringing in a paycheck and you do the housework and he is sitting on his butt wanting money from you, then yes divorce him then. He should be thinking of divorce not you.....
2006-08-31 16:29:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy paper plates and divorce him anyway because he shouldnt have to do the dishes and get a better wife.14 hours of work,damn beotch you get a job and do your own dishes.
2006-08-31 15:55:38 · answer #8 · answered by Pitdog1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i disagree with everyone else. if you are the housewife and do all the work around the house, including mowing/snow, laundry, kid detail then yes he should do something if he does absolutely nothing. yes hes at work all day, but at least he gets to leave. come up with a compromise, like if you fold some laundry while sitting there, then i will do the dishes. find some other chore for him!! you shouldnt have to do every singe thing!!!!
2006-08-31 16:00:23 · answer #9 · answered by countrygalsline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He works 14 hrs a day and you want him to do the dishes when he gets home??
WHAT are you doing all day???
2006-08-31 15:51:22 · answer #10 · answered by gerilynn35 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure do him a favor and divorce him, then maybe he can look for an 8 hour a day job and a better wife!
2006-08-31 16:36:06 · answer #11 · answered by J j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋