My mom abuses me what do I do?

Question

Once I tried to call 911 but she caught me so i had to hang up. then they called back and she hung up on them. This is really bad. It is everyday. And now i found out I am pregnant. I want to Live with my dad but i dont know how to go about that. He isnt my leagal gardian anymore.HELP!

Answer 1

From what I am reading, my guess is that you are a spoiled brat.
It doesnt state your age, but my guess by your id is you are young beacuse you are still at home wondering if you can go to your dad's. The fact that you are pregnant says that you have not been under that strict of control.
Also I am sure that 911 checked on the reason of the call when they called back. If they had the slightest question they would have sent an officer.
Final assumption.....You are very immature......
advice..........grow up, you are soon to be a parent yourself.

Answer 2

Well if this is truly happening then you need to tell another adult like your grandma, cousin, aunt any relative or friend of the family. If that doesn't work then you need to go straight to the police when your mom isn't around. But listen to me and listen to me good do not mistake your mom whooping your behind for something you have done with abuse. This is a very serious matter and it isn't something you should play around with if this isn't the case at all. Not for nothing you shouldn't be pregnant at 14 that could explain maybe why your mom is whooping your behind. Still in all even if that is the case she shouldn't be abusing you repeatedly that's wrong. So like I said before make sure you understand the difference between getting your but whooped and getting beat up on. They aren't the same thing. Cause once you start calling the police and claiming this you are going to have to stick with it there isn't any oh I was just saying that once the police and ACS gets involved. This is a big matter and you could loss a lot so make sure that you are being truthful.

Answer 3

1st of all, if your mom hung up on 911 - they would show up at your doorsteps. So somethings fishy.

If it is everyday, then Im sure you have some sort of proof. If not get it. Go to a friend after it happens, a school counselor, anyone. Make sure they see it. Also take pictures, use a tape recorder, etc.

Call your dad - find out if he's willing to take you, but realize that once you do this, there is no turning back.

Simple solution: Go live with your babies daddy. He helped you make a baby, make him responsible.

Answer 4

This story sounds a litle hoky because 911 is suposed to follow up on calls where someone hangs up the phone and put in jail the one who did it. However, why not try leaving and going to a preist or pastor or a cop (htose guys are often not your friend) but sometimes they do the right thing. Not a good idea to leave while you are being watched, and I gotta ask do you think what you are calling abuse would be called abuse by many others. It is a word that seems to be substituted for "I don't like that"

Answer 5

You sound like a child that might need some good old fashion discipline. But if your mom is truly abusing you then you can tell a teacher, call 911 from the school office. Or use someone elses phone.

There are many options available. But be prepared to be shipped to a shelter until CPS finishes their investigation. This is not away to move to your dads.

Answer 6

talk to the school counselor-tell them you need there protection-have them call dcf-you could be placed in a different home-don't be scared-no matter what happens just keep talking to the school counselor everyday-tell them your pregnant-tell them you cannot go home tonight because if your mom found out about the baby she'll beat you and you don't want to lose the baby. even if you have to call the ambulance saying that you want to commit suicide-as long as they get you to the hospital you can tell them everything and that is why you feel the way you do-this could get you away from your mom for a few days or week and you might be placed in a safer environment.

Answer 7

I'm just going to jump right in here and assume your mother did not get you pregnant. I have a feeling you are out of control and your mother is having a hard time (and not much luck) getting your hot little butt straightened out. SHE IS THE ONE who needs to call 911 and get you hauled up into juvenile court and put in a program that will give you some 24/7 reality therapy and help you grow up!!!

Answer 8

Talk to someone close to you, who you trust. Maybe a priest or rabbi, best friend, teacher, guidance counselor at your school. They can give you some really great advice.

With the whole pregnancy issue, try calling a Planned Parenthood nearest you. You can sit down with one of their counselor and help you work through your options.

Look into the idea of a restraining order, or ordering some form of protection. If you are old enough, think about moving into your own house or appt. or even moving in with a realitive nearby. You can talk to Child Services about giving custody of yourself over to your dad.

If nothing else works, try calling the police, rather than 911. Local police stations are closer and also listen better.

Good luck, hon.
;)

Answer 9

arent you ever away from the house to tell a relative? im not sure if youre telling the truth cuz i think 911 would keep calling more than once. Go for a walk with change and go to a cphone and call someone who loves you to talk ok?

Answer 10

Get out of the house first as soon as you can. Call the cops from any phone booth 911 or any public place/phone, and they'll come to fetch you. Then, call dad from there to get you and your dad and you can report your mommy dearest.