Well im in a relationship , everythings going pretty dam good, but out of no where ive been having these dreams of me cheating on her, i dont know WHY though, id never do that, my girlfiend has had a couple of dreams of me cheating on her too, i have no idea why this is happening, anybody, any ideas on what the hell this could mean??
2006-08-31 08:32:55 · 20 answers · asked by Beto G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dreams don't always have literal interpretations. Here is an alternative thought for you from an online dream dictionary:
To dream that you are cheating on your spouse, mate, or significant other, suggests feelings of self-guilt and self-betrayal. You may have compromised your beliefs or integrity and/or wasting your energy and time on fruitless endeavors. Alternatively, it reflects the intensity of your sexual passion and exploring areas of your sexuality. It is a reaffirmation of your commitment.
To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others. This notion may stem from issues of trust or self-esteem.
2006-08-31 09:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I actally just got married 2 weeks and am still having these dreams. I think on some level it is a form of insecurity that everybody gets now and then. Nothing in life is certain and our subconcious mind dwels into that part of the brain which thinks these thought. Human nature in my opinion
2006-08-31 08:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by jellybean669 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just means that you're both concerned about cheating. Not necessarily just you cheating but either one. I use to freak out over whether or not my husband was cheating on me. I would dream of me cheating on him though. As soon as I chilled out and trusted him more, the dreams stopped. Now I just dream about us having sex in kinky places.LOL
2006-08-31 08:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by lilmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you are going through a stage where ultimately trust will be solidified. If you are certain you would never cheat on her and she's positive she would never cheat on you-- then you have nothing to worry about! They're just dreams.
Have a great day!!!
2006-08-31 08:36:44 · answer #4 · answered by Coo coo achoo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might mean that you two have some unresolved issues between you that you need to address. The key is communication. You both need to sit down & talk, make sure that you're both on the same page & that you're both as happy together as you each think you are individually.
2006-08-31 08:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by Shadow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you know that you wont cheat whats the problem. its only a dream try not to worry about it
2006-08-31 08:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by lisa7777 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could mean that you are afraid of just how serious your relationship has gotten. Unless you act on your feelings you should have no problem. Do you think you are subconsciously trying to break up with her?
2006-08-31 08:37:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are having doubts about the relationship and unconsciously, you want to cheat on your gf.
2006-08-31 08:36:30 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You both are insecure and most likely in love, scard of losing the best thing that happened to you both.
2006-08-31 08:39:26 · answer #9 · answered by Only 1 Tru Rain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please dont share these dreams with her. We all do stupid things in dreams and thats not real so forget that. If we all had our dreams put on TV we couldnt walk the street lets face it.
2006-08-31 08:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋