I'm married and very happy with that. I recently saw an X and we hung out just to catch up. Nothing happened and I didn't want anything to happen. He was acting all stupid saying things like "are we going to get this over with and get it on or what?" My question is... should I even waste my time or forget this "friendship" as it probably won’t work out. I feel guilty seeing him even though nothing happened. Is this normal and would you be friends with an x who was acting in such a way?
2006-08-31 08:12:11 · 7 answers · asked by Queen of Kings 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Follow your instincts and just let him go. Think about it. There's a good reason (at least one) that you're not with him anymore. Very VERY few guys are even capable of being just friends with a female, and this guy has already shown his hand. He's not your friend, and he will damage your marriage if you don't just leave him alone. Walk away and don't look back. You'll thank yourself later.
2006-08-31 08:25:19 · answer #1 · answered by Zebra4 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run away screaming. If you are marrien (and you say it's happy) then why jeopardize it???? Why would you want to spend time with someone who keeps pestering you betray your husband????? What would your husband want you to do? I don't think your choice will be that hard. This is how things "just happen"...people let them happen.
2006-08-31 08:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by DivaDynamite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is acting in this way, he wants something more than friendship. And it sound like you don't. So no. The answer is no! No friendship. I suggest you dump him and stick to you husband.
2006-08-31 08:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by etherberg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if he's actin like this he wants u to be his girl. If u wanna stay married then don't be your EX's friend, but if u wanna hang out wit him, dump ur husband cuse the relationship with u and ur EX could get serious.
2006-08-31 08:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by Teya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think how you would feel if your husband was going out with an x just to be friends.
2006-08-31 08:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by setter505 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are feeling guilty then you should not continue with this relationship. If he keeps making comments like that then stay away from him. I could not be friends with anyone who makes comments that is unacceptable.
2006-08-31 08:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually NO
2006-08-31 08:26:35 · answer #7 · answered by mafezy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋