Good looking girl walks by and husband's head turns to see them and I get mad at him very quickly and start feeling ugly and feeling like he doesn't like the way I look.
2006-08-31 08:12:07 · 18 answers · asked by whereamiat2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Men are visual! We will all look, we just usually try to hide looking when our wives are with us. It is normal but he does need to respect you.
I love my wife and think she is the most beautiful woman in the world. But when an attractive lady walks by I do look! It does not mean I want to leave my wife and jump into bed with her!
2006-08-31 08:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i think this happens to the best of us. but, if i was you i wouldn't show him your anger. instead make nice remarks about the very girl he looks at. and then watch his facial expressions. and also you can do the same thing he does. look at passing guys. i think men have a lack in understanding women's feelings. it's like they are from another planet or something. just remember this: men are "visual" and women are "emotional". hence the barrier between the sexes. and don't let this make you feel any less prettier than you are. it's not you with the problem.
2006-08-31 15:35:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why the hell are women so insecure that looking at someone or something is a threat. He's with YOU by choice and this kind of sick thinking is a repellent. Just be the best you ,you can be and be CONFIDENT with that . Insecurity along with jealousy are poison to relationships. Women look at men too,but for some reason far fewer men freak out about it.
2006-08-31 15:22:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
why would you be mad? if he really loves you then no matter how long she look at that girl it wouldn't matter to him. boys are very decisive in another girls appearance. they are easily attracted to beaitful women. but that doesn't mean that they don't love you and would betray you. maybe at some points you are to blame. maybe he wants you to take care of your self that is why he is challenging you by doing that. why don't you have a spa and salon make over some times so he would see that although you are already married you still have time to make yourself beautiful... soon you'll notice a change and maybe he won't look at other women anymore...
2006-08-31 15:25:45 · answer #4 · answered by pink2litle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First this isn't necessarily a problem with your husband. It sounds like you are very insecure. Perhaps you should work on your own issues first and increase your self confidence. Self confidence (not arrogance) is very attractive.
Second men and women are going to notice other people when they are around, this is human nature to be aware, don't stress over it. Now, if he attempts to make contact, that is potentially a problem.
2006-08-31 15:21:36 · answer #5 · answered by hikerboy3 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it fine to look , it's only human nature,but it not respectful to u if he has to turn to see them.Next time the 2 of u are some watching tv and a cute guy comes on say "he's hot or hes fine " and if he says something remind him what he does and that its okay to look but keep it to yourself and not be so obvious.
2006-08-31 18:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by Bel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it get to you. I'm sure you look at guys as well. It doesn't mean you want to leave your husband for a stranger.
2006-08-31 15:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl u got him that's all that matter. Ur the one hes doing at night. Just let him know not to be so freakin obvious.
2006-08-31 15:17:04 · answer #8 · answered by **What??** 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
grow up my advice. I see my hubby looking i ASK do you like that? we usually just laugh it's funny he knows he was busted. I DON'T GET MAD that's immature and silly. I look at nice looking guys dose not mean i'm gonna screw em JUST because I'm on a diet dose not mean i can't see the menu.
2006-08-31 15:23:35 · answer #9 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it is annoying, but try not to let it get to you - act secure - most men do it, so at least you know it's just not your man - i will sometimes purposely check out men when i'm out with a man, just so they can see what it feels like - i once caught my date cranking his neck so far so he could see what i was looking at - & guess what it was the guy in the band - equal rites!
2006-08-31 16:25:15 · answer #10 · answered by livetall1 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋