my sister is 41 yrs.old. single and she is menopausing now, sis is succesfull business woman, my daughter will be 18th on sept. 8, 2006, my sis and my daughter have a nice relantionship, but my daughter always saw how my sis fights me and my mom everyday coz she is accusibng me and our mom, that we neglected her and didn't accompany her to the O.B.gyne of mine.
One day my children and my sis go malling and afterwards ate to restaurant together with my sis. in law who is on vacation here with his hubby and 2 kids, sis and my daughter suddenly fights because my sis. keep on bullying my daughter, she keeps on telling that her debut is ugly if it is not on hotel and a lot of discouraging words,infront of the visitors, and my daughter cant control her temper she got the plate and broke it and she doesnt stop to cry and she goes with me crying and crying. after one week i told her thart we will go her aunt and gave their invitation, my daughter said-i dont like, til now i cant push her.
2006-08-31 07:56:49 · 7 answers · asked by allu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-08-31 07:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by yakov f 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your daughter your sis. is probably acting insensitive now because she's menopausal. Remind your daughter of what it was like before and that it is a phase which you sis will get past (like a really long PMS). Also, tell your daughter to learn to keep her temper in check she won't make many friends with that type of temper.
Tell you sis. menopause is not enough to act like a complete jack*ss and that you all aren't going to stand for it. Remind her that you will be there for her whilst she's going through this tough time but you really won't stand her derogatory remarks and non-constructive criticism.
Tell both sides and apology will be usefull.
2006-08-31 15:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think YOU can fix anything. It's between the two of them and they'll have to do the fixing and making up. The only person in this deal whose behavior you can control is your own and you don't HAVE to do anything--I know you won't want to hear that if you are a "fixer" but it's the truth. Just be available to understand and sympathize with them.
2006-08-31 15:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Narrative too long.Too many people. Can not make out what you are saying.
2006-08-31 15:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah ur sis is bieng insensitive
2006-08-31 15:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tie them up together.
2006-09-04 13:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make them spend some quality time together******************************************
2006-08-31 16:07:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋