I need a good daycare in pembroke pines, fl (or surrounding areas)...anybody?

Question

I have a 9 month old and it's time for daycare (I work a full time job and grandma wants a break). This is the issue, the ones I do like are either way expensive or full! The ones that are open are in crappy areas and the teachers dont seem very nice....Anybody know of any good ones?

Thanks Cassandra, but I did not ask you for your opinion. You do not know me, or my situation. Your feelings on daycare are your own, and I do not want to hear them. If you can stay home and take care of your child, then that's fine, but I have to work to take care of mine and I'm proud of being a working mother. You should never ever judge another mother. Never! You are totally out of line.

Answer 1

Do not listen to this woman! She is obviously priviledged enough not to have to work to take care of her children. And in response to her "opinion" children in day care are more social then children NOT in day care. Her child will be the one who when attending school for the first time will be attached to her leg and screaming that he/she does not want to go. Her child will be in fear, leaving his/her parents for the first time. Why would you put YOUR child through THAT? She is also probably one who believes that home schooling your children is better then sending them to a school to learn. Whatever. Do not judge someone, that is just sheer IGNORANCE!

In response to your post, check into La Petite Academy. I worked for La Petite for 2 years (YES, a fellow working mother!) and I believe we had academies there. There should be several in the area. Good luck!

Answer 2

My Aunt lives in Hollywood,Fl which isn't too some distance from Pembroke Pines. In different words Pembroke Pines is in simple terms exterior of Hollywood. Its a effective place lot of retired human beings there. I lived in Margate it is a few million/2hr from Pembroke Pines. wish that became useful. have exciting on a similar time as ur interior the mild state.

Answer 3

Children need one primary care giver throughough childhood, in order to avoid attachment problems. Having multiple caregivers is a huge risk factor for being a sociopath - for being unattached to other people. Also, 8/9 months is the time of separation anxiety, when the child realizes they are separate from mommy and are, therefore rightly, much more anxious about being away from mommy.

Switching away from grandma to anyone but you will set your child on the typical day care path of detachment, depression, and denial (of the pain by the parents.)

NICHD research over twenty years shows that whether day care is quality or poor, the damage to the child's emotional well-being is the same. Day care use before age 5 damages mom's attachment to her baby, dad's approval of the baby, baby's attachment to mommy. It's abnormal, tho the media tries to pretend it's normal, and it hurts.

Your child will be devastated by day care. Your child's brain will flood with stress hormones in your absence and learning and emotional health will be impaired. There is no good way to abandon your child. Grandma wants a break - how about you? You had the child, yes? Grandma wants, you want, but the baby NEEDS. The baby will be severely damaged by your plan. Please consider finding ways to be an actual factual mother. You'll gain so much, as, of course, will your child. In a few years of day care use, you will not even understand your child or what children need. In 14 years of parenting, I've seen it happen over and over. Kids all hate day care, tho they often lie to mom and dad to get the approval they crave.

Day care is a lousy life for a child - why provide it to yours?