2006-08-31 07:37:34 · 13 answers · asked by britney 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Anyone who tells you sex hurts the first time is only telling you 1/2 the story.
The rest of what they don't tell you is what misery NINE months of pregnancy, 36-hours of labor, an emergency C-section, 6-weeks of surgical recuperation, MONTHS of not sleeping because your baby is up ALL the time, and YEARS of raising a kid is.
Yep. That's what its like when you have a baby and you're too young to deal with it. By the way, sex DOES lead to PREGNANCY. It's a biological fact of life.
You are under the classification of "Adolescent" on this forum - you obviously are NOT an adult, and I would strongly urge you to NOT have sex till you are an ADULT and can handle all of the responsibilities that go along with having SAFE SEX.
2006-08-31 07:46:57 · answer #1 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm so sick of people telling others to not have sex before they're married.
Whether they like it or not,
this is the 21st century and you know what;
68% of people have had intercourse by the time they're 18.
Do what you want when you want to.
It might hurt a little the first time;
but you'll get to like it eventually.
Just use protection and don't listen to the moron who was all "9 months of pregnancy; 36 hours of labour"
be safe and careful;
and you won't get pregnant. simple as that.
always use protection.
2006-08-31 08:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
For me it hurt. I hurt for days afterward too. I don't think he was overly rough with me, and I was 19 at the time, so it wasn't like I was too young. It just really really hurt. I couldn't sit down for a couple of days without really aching. I'm not a religious fanatic trying to scare you into abstaining. I'm just being honest. I didn't really enjoy sex until I met my husband, I was more mature and understood my body better.
2006-08-31 07:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by S. O. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It feels like your muscle tightens and it hurts at first it actually hurts first couple of times it helps alot if you take a shower because (not to be sick or anything) it helps..a whole lot.. it slips right in. and it depends on how big it is. because it will rip more if its bigger and it will hurt alot more. use lubricants. them help to. and dont do it untill your ready. and its someone whome you love.
my first time was when i was 17.., and im married to him now and still am.
2006-08-31 07:43:09 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_poetic_fire 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until you get married to experience sex. Sex the first couple of times not only hurts but its awkward. You dont really get any pleasure from it.
2006-08-31 07:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, I didn't feel much of anything but bored.
Sex didn't get good for me until I got married.
2006-08-31 07:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by gonefornow 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
for everybody its feels like ****. and the dumb **** who said only have sex as an adult is wrong as hell. Theres nothing wrong with having sex young if you pregnant fall down the stairs or something. If you want to have sex thats on you God gave us free will remember that.
2006-08-31 08:11:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
its scary, nerve wracking and painful. Definately overrated. (The first time anyways)
2006-08-31 07:50:41 · answer #8 · answered by intenseone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it don't hurt that bad just when ur hymen rips but it might have already ripped!! because it can from playing sports or even putting in a tampon it's not too bad good luck
2006-08-31 08:15:24 · answer #9 · answered by babynam2 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hurts soooo bad,don't do it
2006-08-31 07:40:08 · answer #10 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋